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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Intelligent, poorly paid, and I need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I hope my question can be regarded as a relationship question... I have been on the same low paying job for more than 8 years. I love the work, I love working conditions, I even love my boss. BUT. I can’t live properly...

We broke up 2 weeks ago and I've heard nothing from him! Did he ever care? I'm confused and hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - Trying to get over the guy I was with dumping me out of the blue after 6 years, it has been 2 weeks and everytime I hear nothing from him I am slowly giving up and hardening my heart to any reconciliation or speaking to him ever again. I feel li...

Why do some people not say hello? Especially at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - Why do some people not say hi back, especially in work or social situation? I was told once to always say hi as i walk into work or in a social situation and im introverted, saying hi is hard but i do! So why do colleagues and some others igno...

I feel unwelcome at work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - Im new to the area NOT the workplace or job (i have been there a while) some colleagues wont even introduce themselves! I have said hi and introduced myself to some and some give me a " who s she?" Look and wont introduce themselves. I like my job ...

His attentions aren't unpleasant but I'd like them to stop

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - How do I stop a guy from flirting with me - I never flirt back. I'm not rude towards him. I am just civil. But I am shy and he may get the wrong message. I laugh at his jokes, but only when they're funny. This may sound weird, but I don't thin...

Is it weird that I'm reluctant to date a girl so much younger than me? She's 19

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 June 2016 (M) - Okay so Friday night I went out with a friend of mine, and we met some girls of which one seemed to be taking a liking to me. She looked fairly young and these days girls look a lot older then they actually are. But apparently she's 19 years old. ...

Why do men always lose interest in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Why do men always lose interest in me after two months? I dated three men for two months each and suddenly, at the two month point they cool way off. Communication drops, they stop making plans, and we just stop talking. I do my part. I don't over ...

Not sure if 'No' means no for good

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 June 2016 (M) - Asked a female out for a drink from the office of where I work and she said she would get back to me. And she did, unfortunately it wasn't good news. It was a rejection reply. I absolutely hate them. Anyway she explained she wasn't able to see me ...

Why do some young women go out to night clubs dressed they way they do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Why do the women at the night clubs dress like s^^ts?? So I'm talking here about women who wear clothes with plunging cleavages, booster bras, short skirts and the like. We went to a club last weekend and there were many women barely dressed. ...

I probably shouldn't take him back. Is what I did to him worse than what he did to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I was involved with my ex-boyfriend for many years we are friends first so I've known him a really long time. We know each other very very well. He had some substance abuse issues and during that time cheated on me multiple occasions. When I fi...

He's accusing me of not locking the door. Why would he become be so accusatory towards me??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - I just moved into an apartment with a room-mate. And there's been a situation that I would like your opinion on: My room-mate came home after being gone for a week, and discovers some boxes for him on his bed, that he ordered. So he asks me if I ...

Could it be that my husband of 15 years is not into me any more but is reluctant to admit this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Could it be that my husband of 15 years is not into me anymore but is reluctant to admit it even to himself? I don't want to make HIS problem into something about me, but it's been going on for a while and after looking for causes and trying a...

I am low on his list of priorities!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend does not have time for me anymore an am not sure of what to do! Basically there is a culture clash and his parents want him to have an arranged marriages which he has refused to do as he is with me But I feel like everyt...

What if he doesn't know to communicate? How can I bring back our sex life in our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - Married my LDR husband after 9mths and a baby 5mths later. I will have to say things happened so fast that I failed to realize we will have to put in work to spice up our sex life. Our current situation is not allowing us to step it up. He just mov...

What does he mean by barricades?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - What did he mean when he said that men and women protect themselves by using barricades? What kind of barricades is he referring too? ...

Can they really expect more hours without overtime pay?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hello, I moved to the US few months ago and I'm working in financie field and have an exempt full time position. I was hired for 40 hours work per week but my supervisor stating that we all must put some extra hours every week. I do come early ...

His kiss has upset my calm

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

19 June 2016 (F) - I have a bf of over a year however recently something happened with a work colleague. The guy from work kissed me after a night out but now has said we can't talk outside of work anymore as his gf thinks there is something between us. I'm feeli...

Are my standards losing me love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

19 June 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts. Ive never had a long term relationship. The longest ive dated is three months. All the guys i date seem to start questioning the relationship at some point. Ive been told by both girls and guys that im very beautiful and ive the right ...

Why do work mates not socialise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

18 June 2016 (F) - At a work social event do you think it's usual for people to not say hi or say quick hi and not socialise with everyone, or is it a bit rude? Obviously we talk to those we like and feel comfortable with but shouldn't everyone try to talk...

How do I meet a woman who is accepting of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

17 June 2016 (M) - I'm 30, male, and from the United Kingdom. I have Asperger's Syndrome - but it isn't the main issue here, the main issue is dating and my sexuality. I am mostly attracted to women, but have some attraction to men [but it is less important th...

How can I get over the fear of never finding the "one"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - How can I get over the fear of never finding the one? For the last 29 years (im turning 30) all I have focused on was finding a man. I've tried everything - I've lost weight - fixed my appearance- kept up with my degrees- but still I find myself i...

Did my girlfriend cross a line here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

17 June 2016 (M) - Just looking for some advice, try and put all the info down. This is as I heard it, obviously I wasn't there: Here's the situation, gf went out on a night out in another country with a big group of colleagues and clients for dinner and drink...

My partner doesn't think that my achievements are anything to be proud of

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

17 June 2016 (F) - Am I asking too much? I've just completed an intense access course at college after returning at 26, I've also gotten an offer from University and acquired the grades which means I'll begin my degree in September. Im so proud of myself goi...

My manager sent an angry text on my day off! How should I respond?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

16 June 2016 (M) - My boss has sent me a shitty text message saying the following: "you have authorised 'john' to have this saturday off as holiday and not put anyone in at 8am, so as it stands, i cant enter the store. not your finest rota this week, needs impr...

Is it wrong or right to send flowers to a co worker you like?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

16 June 2016 (M) - I have a question I wanted to ask and ive been debating it. If there is a co worker a male likes and he's into her. Let's say the special day was valentines day. Is it wrong or right to send flowers to a co worker you like? not that I'm intendi...

Group sex with boyfriend, his room mate and room mate's girlfriend! I loved it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - I'm 23 and have had boyfriends all through high school I've never thought about another girl in a sexual way. A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I were drinking with his roommate and the roomates gf when they dared us to kiss. After more drinks we ...

I broke the engagement, but what did I do wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - Hello all. I'm new here and seeking some assistance with an issue I'm presently dealing with. I appreciate all who answer and want to apologize first hand for possible grammatical errors. Here goes: A little over two weeks ago I decided to call ...

I feel betrayed and devastated that my husband is regularly visiting a brothel. What are my options to deal with my hurt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - after 6 years of marriage I feel everything is falling apart! and I am completely devastated .. My husband is having an adultery, he is a regular brothel visitor. we got married after years of crazy deep love and commitment, now we are married for ...

Cancelled dates comfusing me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

12 June 2016 (F) - I really like someone for the first time in a few months and I'm trying to show I'm available without been too desperate but I just end up feeling more rejected at the moment. She has been having a hard time lately and has to go through a court case ...

I need help, please. Ten months therapy. Still a virgin. Still wary of girls. How can I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

10 June 2016 (M) - Hi everyone I'm posting again here because I cant seem to solve this problem no matter what I throw at it. I'm a 23 yr old virgin and have low self esteem as a result. My last and only girlfriend was 5 years ago. I've been on several first an...

Do I risk losing her for good if I tell her, ''no we can't do this right now'' ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

10 June 2016 (M) - In our final year of university, a girl I have grown close with from my friendship group confessed that she liked me, just a few weeks after splitting up with her boyfriend of 2 years, who is also a pretty good friend of mine. I immediat...

Is the guy married or not? I think yes...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - My sister fell for a guy who turns out to be married and wanted nothing to do with him. He wore a wedding ring, posted photos of him and his wife on FB until a month and a half ago, which is when he really started to woo her. He lives in ano...

Worried I'm on the wrong side of college secretary

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

9 June 2016 (F) - Hello...I need advise I recently got into a squabble with the secretary in my university. You see in my university whenever a semester starts we have the option to request a class to be offered in that semester instead of the regular semester, this ...

Was this a polite rejection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

8 June 2016 (F) - So I have been interested in guy who works the next building from mine.He's always friendly and was giving off subtle signs of interest. I finally gave him my number and told him to call/text sometime.He said sure.Then I ran into him today and he ...

I'm being bullied at work. Should I quit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

8 June 2016 (F) - I joined this one company about six months back, and everything was hunky-dory for a while.It was a very small office with less than 10 people working, but the salary seemed okay for a fresher and I had no trouble fitting in. Days went by, and I ...

Can anyone understand why I am so distressed about my husband masturbating to porn when I'm at work or when I'm asleep beside him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

8 June 2016 (F) - Hi A couple of months ago I discovered that my husband masturbates to porn while I am asleep or while I am not at home or working late. Our sex life is average, we have it at least 1-2 times per week, but I am always the one initiating i...

Can I ever escape the guilt from what I've done?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

7 June 2016 (M) - So here is my story. I'm completely lost and in a bad way. Riddled with shame and guilt. Feel totally out of control and powerless. I'm a serial cheat. I never expected to be in this position. I have strong values and rate honesty highly. I hate ...

Is there a bias to the answers here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

6 June 2016 (M) - I was wondering why aunts and uncles are more willing to answer questions that are related to below belly button , thresum, Fwb, F buddies, but are less likely to help on some serious questions regarding other issues? Have we gotten some preferences ...

Should I attach a sincere apology to each thank you note sent out? I forgot to mail thank notes following our Jan wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) - Hi, i have a dilemma and feedback would be greatly appreciated. I got married in Jan 2016. Our special day was nothing short of perfect from the moment we started planning, right through to the end of our wedding day. After we returne...

Why am I so pessimistic and obsessed about how people are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

5 June 2016 (F) - I don't know how to explain my issue without making myself look naive and immature. Well I keep worrying about the growing number of people who are so selfish in relationships. I see many people cheating left and right, having a lack in character ...

Do I tell him more in the hope that we can work things out or just end this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

5 June 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had a break because of other things in my life not to do with him , we have only been together a few month but knew each other as friends 6 months previously , we do not live together. i told him i was having a few problems but ...

Why has my husband's sense of self-identity changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

5 June 2016 (F) - I've been married to my husband for almost 15 years and we have had good days and rough patches. My husband suffers from anxiety and extreme bouts of moodiness in which is rationale for things seem altered or out of context. My husband is n...

How can I best support my friend who's sister in law is causing trouble by being controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

4 June 2016 (F) - I need advice for my friend who has been married going on 2 years her husband s oldest sister is very controlling etc she wont give up the title of power of attorney still wonts to control his money. My friend stays stressed and worried when bil...