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What does he mean by barricades?

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Question - (21 June 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2016)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

What did he mean when he said that men and women protect themselves by using barricades? What kind of barricades is he referring too?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (22 June 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntI know that when people get hurt from past relationships they generally put up a barricade so that another person cannot hurt them again, they do not allow someone in to their heart, and they try and not develop feelings for them as they are feared of getting hurt.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (21 June 2016):

Honeypie agony auntHe is talking "walls" - emotional walls.

Some people choose to build "walls" around their emotions and themselves because they think it can prevent them from ever getting hurt again.

Others do this in the beginning of a relationship because they are unsure if it leads somewhere, so they don't open up very fast.

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