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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I get the hots for older teachers, do you think I should seek therapy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - It's hard to explain, but i'll try to make it as simple as possible. Okay, i've liked a teacher of mine for about four years now. Of course i'm aware that it's just a crush. Im also aware that it's probably fetish for me considering that...

I miss my family and I don't know what to do. Can anyone help?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Well it all started two years ago and it still hurts. i need advice on how to get over it or cope with it. I moved away from my family over two years ago and I left everything and once in a while I just miss them so bad. I just dont know what to do. ...

Can I get my new piercings wet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - hey i got my ears pierced (one on each ear) a couple of hours ago. i know that i have to clean it with this special lotion, but can i now have a soak in the bath/ a shower and get my ears/ new piercings wet? what are the rules on this? pl...

My mother married at 19, but says I'm too young to move in with my boyfriend, what gives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - My grandma(my mothers mom) was married at 16 and had my mom when she was 17. And they had a great life. My mom never thought her mother was too young. My mother is also always telling me about how she started dating my father when she was 19 and ...

Am I really "Amazing"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - hi erm i dont really have any trouble with girls. i have a girlfriend, she is really hot but i feel slightly insecure and unnatractive because: a. i dont think im good enough for her! alot of other guys like her and shes really cool. so im cons...

Is he just a flirt, or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Here's the dilemma: I've been friends with this guy for a number of years now, he's almost 2 years younger than me (he’s 18), so until recently he hasn't been so mature - he has been known among our friends as a flirt. On the weekend, as apar...

I think I might be worrying too much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I had sex for the first time. Me and my boyfriend used a condom but I am still extremely scared that I could be pregnant. I told my boyfriend, but he just laughed and said I worry too much. He is a very experienced guy, and has had many long term ...

I want them both, but am not going to try it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Ok, well since summer I have realy REALY liked this guy, but I dont realy know him that well I we dont go to the same schools or anything so I just forgot about him. Anyway I got on with my life, and had a lovly boyfriend, we broke up and then ...

Is it possible to be TOO nice to women?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - How do I avoid being nice towards women? I've had relationships but they always end in me getting dumped. My best friend says its because im too nice. what does he mean?...

Would you allow your wife to have sex with another man?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - If you were unable to satisfy your wife sexually due to health problems, would it be ok to allow her to have sex with a person of your choice?...

Should I break a promise I made after a break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of four years for a number of reasons. Over the past few weeks we have been unravelling our relationship, while she prepares to leave the country for up to 2 years in a month or two. I own the car, but she used...

I want more, how do I tell him without scaring him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I have been in an on and off (mainly on) relationship for 9 years with a guy I truly adore. He makes me laugh, we know each other inside out, we have the same goals etc. But I am 25 now, and I am ready for our relationship to be a lot more serious - ...

My son is punished everytime my husband drinks.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - my husband is the greatest guy in the world until he starts drinking, he loves my son from a previous marraige, but when he drinks it seems like my son is the worst kid in the world and I am the worst mother. I was going to leave him a couple of ...

Men who don't kiss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - my boyfriend says he loves me, does things to show his love but doesn't enjoy kissing..this bothers me. whats the problem...

Mom said I never have feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - ok my problem is my bf lied to me and i broke up with him becasue his ex ws bitching me out but i don't fell bad we broke up my mom said i never have feelings is there something wrong with me?...

He likes her more than me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6145 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - i really like this guy but he doesnt know. i told my sister that i liked him so she started talking to him and now he hits on her all the time and is starting to like her more than me! what should i do?...

All I can do is picture my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, ok i have just started dating this guy, and everytime we kiss good night, i cry because all i can picture is my ex that i broke up with in october.. ...

My older boyfriend is now in jail.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Well I'm 15 and I have a 24 year old boyfriend. We love each other but when I told my mom she told a counceler and he was forced to report it, so now he's in jail, He still calls and writes and says he loves me and stuff but I'm not sure what to do, ...

How can I get over my body image issues ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

29 January 2008 (?) - I've always had body image issues, it's quite embarrassing. Ever since I was a kid I had bad self esteem, because my mom wouldn't let me wear my hair long (I had long hair up to when I was like 4 years old, but my mom got sick of me crying when s...

Any Insight on Employment Tribunals anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6145 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Out of curiosity, does anyone know about employment tribunals, and how they treat unfair dismissal and discrimination. Has anyone won one and have a story to share. I may have to go to one and could do with a little insight. Also I'd like to ...

Torn between my best friend and boyfriend...which one do I choose??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I ve bin dating the same guy since high skool....am working and done with college now..so we've bin dating for a long time(7yrs)although a long distance relationship.. I met some guy about a year ago and we have bin very very good friend.....

How can I be neutral on this guy who I had a crush on from day one??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi... So I got married to such a great guy a year and a half ago when I was 19. He's so sweet and supportive and I adore him and we're so happy together! Before I started going out with my husband (2 1/2 years ago) I had a big crush on his best fri...

I want a GF, a good relationship. But how do I prepare myself emotionally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hello, This is my first post here, seems like a great community. :) I am looking for more advice then I am looking for an answer to a question. I am 19 years old and am looking for a girlfriend. I have been in several small relationships that...

What should be the right choice to make here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - This is a very awkward situation .I hope I can explain it as close as possible,and someone might be able to relate to this or give an advice. So its a long and troublesome marriage ,was real love i guess, but today, its an other story.. So the pr...

Cheated before, I have the right to know if she has after we got married

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - My wife is an oral sex freak, by that I mean going down on guys. Before we were engaged she told me she blew about 12-15 guys and wasn't sure of the exact amount because lots of guys she did lots of times. I overlooked this because her reas...

I need help with a guy Problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Is it normal for a guy in high school to freak out if a girl likes him?I kinda got bit obssesed with him latley.i beleive he wanted to be my friend at 1st becasue he told 3 guys off that were stocking me nd wouldn't leave me alone.then he freaked ...

She's experienced and I'm scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - I'm dating a girl who is 15 and 17. We had dated but I know we will kiss soon, I want to so badly but I've never kissed before I know it sucks but she has had alot of experience. I'm kind of scared. Any advice for me?...

Want bith control but don't wanna parent with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Ok im back with another question..now that i know i am gunna wait ti'll i have sex..i need to know how do i get on birth control without my parents taking me i think it well make them look at me different an not trust me..i have my medical card ...

Why do I smell bad after shower.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Ok me an my boyfriend have been going out for bout 3 weeks now we are sexuly active an dont use protection (im on the pill) but the last week i have started to smell quite bad down there evan after a shower.... why is this??? ...

Two weeks later having my period.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm over 2 weeks late with my period and i just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated inside of me 3 times, what are my chances of being pregnant?...

Can fighting/arguments be good for a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi guys. I just have a general relationships question that I've been pondering for quite some time now and I'd really like some outside oppinions. Okay so, do you guys find that fighting/arguments are helpful or detrimental to a relationship? Is it ...

I worked hard, she let go and is happy, I'm hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - I came out of a relationship just over 4 months ago. I guess my ex just decided she could do better and wanted to enjoy the freedom of being single. Since she split with me it's felt like there's been a dark cloud hanging over me. People have told ...

I bring it up and she argues, Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - I've been with my g/f for about 3 years now. Everything was great until about a year ago. Now, unless I initiate the sex there is nothing. But the lack of sex isnt really my issue. Its that she just really shows no kind of interest in me or sex. We ...

Boy in class sexually harassing me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl, and i need some advice. This boy in my class has been sexually harrassing me again after he was suspended. he touched my bum. but the thing that scared me was when he zipped down my zipper. what do u think that he was trying ...

I feel uncomfortable when he touches me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - This may sound odd, but I've had an interest in my accounting teacher for awhile now. He has always seemed nice to me, but only recently has it seemed like he's been intereted in me, which worries me. He asks me to stay after school to help correct ...

I don't want to make things weird between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - okay,i have a problem, this boy likes me but i like his friend, and his friend likes me and asked me out but i dont want to hurt the other boy because we are like best friends and i dont want to make things weird between the three of us...help ...

Why don't I fancy anyone anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - about a year ago I really fancied a guy but he didn't even know i existed in that way. A little while before that I had a huge 6 month long crush on a fit mate and he never liked me or even considered me. Before that I have had crushes on countless ...

20 years old...in love with a 51 y/o who wants a future with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I'm a 20 year old gal in love with a 51 year old man,who wants a future with me, what must i do? please help!!!!!...

Can I trust my ex even after she stole from my mum??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - hi, Me and my ex split in October of last year; we split because i found out that she was stealing from my mum. I confronted her and she denied it. She ran off to her mums with our 1 year old little girl and said i couldn't see her again so i w...

What can I do to earn extra money and still spend enough time with my kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Quick question. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I could do on the weekends to earn extra money but still spend time with my children? I already work full time and my evenings and weekends are usually spent cooking, cleaning and tending ...

My boyfriend wants me to remain jobless, but I want to work. How do I get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hey I was wondering if I could get some help from some people to help me solve my problem. My Boyfriend and I want to get married. We aren't getting married anytime soon and know mostly everything we want. He wants to graduate and be a lawyer....

I can't look at him the same way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - well im fourteen and lost my virginity already iv not had any regrets,but ever since da day it happend i cant look at da boy da same way, and it is not in a good way, i dont like him anymore, i need major help...

Fallen for my friend and afraid to tell her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Ok, i will try to make this short. I have a friend who i talk to everyday, she shares her feelings with me. She has this big crush on another person and tells me all bout it. How happy she is and stuff like that. The other person is messing with her ...

Two girls are after me but I only like one

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - i'm 11 and their is this girl at school and she's liked me for about 6 months and i've had a few feelings for her but then there's this other girl who likes me and she's after me and now shes going through puberty she told me and she gets really ...

Threesome...the ins and outs!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - This is embarrassing. I am an attractive woman and my boyfriend and I have decided on a threesome with another guy. We've got that part settled. My boyfriend says that since this is a first for us all (the 2nd guy too) we should make sure what we ...

Love question about being happy in relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Is God really wants us to be happy with someone? if its true ,why are there so many people divorcing all the time. It's almost looks like ,that is not really the game,of happiness, but more of the game of misery. Love is so beautiful., but the end ...

I do stupid things, don't want to loose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - So me an my boyfirend been togather for 4 monthes now we moved in togather like rigth away an it was ture love at first sigth every one said i was crazy my firends was like you don't even know this guy an i'm always the one to think things out but ...

I hate cheating, but why do I do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, WHY when I'm drunk to I exit reality and hook up with someone.. ALWAYS. I know its wrong too... Self control sucks. Like I just lose it, and I'm tired or it. I'm not partying anymore, I love my boyfriend, can ...

Ask him before it's too late, what's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Recently i have been talking to this new guy i just met recently. he is 2 years older than me and is handsome. so far he has proven to me that he knows how to treat a girl by taking me out to eat 2 times and going to the movies together and treating ...

Any thoughts of his behavior

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I broke up with my boyfriend and at the end of November. He was kind of rude to me at a party I saw him at. I asked him if I had done something to make him mad and he said I had not but he was bummed out about something else. We have ...