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writes:hi erm i dont really have any trouble with girls. i have a girlfriend, she is really hot but i feel slightly insecure and unnatractive because:a. i dont think im good enough for her! alot of other guys like her and shes really cool. so im constantly wondering what is she doing with me. i've asked her and she said because im "amazing" but i really cant see it lol. can anyone help me come up with a way to get over this insecurity?andb. because of my weight. i'm not fat at all im just not skinny and not very muscley, she says she thinks im "hot" so will me not being too muscley and stuff matter that much to her??? or should i put a bit more effort in? lolThanks for reading, hope you can help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): She's says that she likes you - why don't you believe her?! I know what you mean by 'insecure feelings' but you have to find a way to either ignore them or put them behind you.
For the working out thing you could try if you wanted - it would be good for you, but I don't think it would matter for your girlfriend. She seems to like you for who you really are and she seems really nice and genuine.
If you are that worried talk to her again about it - and explain to her what you have explained to us. You'll be fine. Good luck with everything x x x
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reader, sk.khaos  +, writes (31 January 2008):
if shes with you what else do you want.i mean obviously she likes you if she with you. you just have to know that you deserve good things,and you deserve her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): Hey she's already after telling you that you are "hot" so why worry about it? She obviously likes you for who you are. A bit of effort in your appearance never goes astray as long as you don't go over board and change totally.
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