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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Feeling lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I seem doomed for always having a lonely life. I was brought up in childrens homes and when I did get married after a few years my husband ran off with another woman. I haev ahd boyfriends but no one wanmts commitment these days. I have amde ...

Is he to young?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I'm a 22 year old female and I like a guy who's 19 he likes me too. Is 19 too young?...

For the ladies: Any advice on dating an older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - This is a short and sweet one - does anyone have any advice on dating an older man? I have recently met a lovely 39 year old man (I am 24) and we have been on a few dates, everything is going great so far and we are getting on really well. The...

Very extreme, unhappy love. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hi, Imma 14 year old girl and I know this is gonna sound stupid but this is something that tears me down nowadays.. Im not just another foolish young child, I have an idea of the world and I understand what people will say, I don't just live in ...

Is it ok for 17 y/o to date a 15 /yo??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Is it ok for a 17 year old (like me ) to date a guy whos almost 15?......

I find myself attracted to older men.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4858 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - hi there, i am a 21 year old female student. basically, i find myself attracted to older men. i mean i have a limit. but i find that i find men older than 30 most attractive. and i don't just mean lookswise but also i find them a whole lot ea...

Should I get back together with my partner or go travelling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - My partner and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. We desided it would be best to take a good break from one another as our whole relationship we have been living together. I was really gutted about the breakup and really love him alot, we are getting ...

I didnt get any closure, why did he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Has anyone else here ever felt this way ?. I was seeing a guy for two months, and he stopped contacting me in May. I am 27, and he is 50. The age gap didn't bother me though, and it didn't seem to bother him. The last time i had a night out with ...

Should I continue trying to have a relationship with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - Here's the deal, I am 18 and he's 27. I've known him since I was around 8 years old and he was 17. He disappeared for a few years and came back this year... Now I am very attracted to him. He's been texting and talking to me...(As in, he texts first ...

Would a guy text a girl he just recently met but do not know so well a lot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - So, this may be a little long, but I met a guy through a community group activity a few months ago. He asked for my number but never contacted me until when I never showed up for any of the hangouts with the group. We texted all day and night even ...

How do I make him see that I am different to other girls and I wont hurt him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - hi everyone so this is my problem me and this man have been having sex for the past 4 months we have just started sending each other dirty pictures and texts we get on really well even though he is 10 years older than me. he has never slept with ...

How can I sit with my mum and tell her I have been lying for a year??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now, hes 36 and I'm 20. I love him more than anything. We had our up and downs but we are always there for each other and find a way to work our differences. He knows my family and they all love him, ...

I'm 27, she's 20 and a friend's sister's friend, is this a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - I met a girl at a party the other day and we got on well although we were both quite drunk and I didn't think anything of it (Just assumed we were casually talking - i've never been good with signs!). After however friends of mine were saying t...

I am getting the feeling that he may not want me to come up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I met this guy online last year. Not only is he 10 years younger but lives 2 hours by plane. Over the past year we have seen each other 3X and continued to chat, etc. We are planning to see each other the August Long Weekend. I am flying out to...

Should I just stop talking to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Ok so here we go, it mite get a little lengthy but bear with me please. So I am 17 and was with a 21year old. (Please no comments on that) We we're together about 5months and grew, unexpectedly, very strong feelings for each other. We had a rough ...

I know he must think alot of me but I am still convinced he will cheat on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I am 17 and my boyfriend is 23 so bit of a big age gap, but i love him alot and im really worried as he lives a long way a way - meaning 160 miles. In the past ive been cheated on and hurt REAL bad and it took a long time to even consider having a...

I like being with him but he doesn't satisfy me in bed. How do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - Hello there! I recently started dating a man who is 20 years older than me. He is 66 and I am 46. We met online and we had an almost immediate connection, at least on an emotional and spiritual level for me, but for him it seems that he feels he is ...

He pretended to be young, when really he is a 44 year old man! What should I do?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - hi ... i'm a girl 18 ... i met some guy on on internet on a 3D game ..he told me his name is Paul and he is 18 ... i loved him ...he shown me some pic for young boy pretending its him.. after being his gf ... in some night he told me he is Ahmed ...

Should I date a man 15 years my senior, whom I share few common interests with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Should I pursue a relationship with someone who is 15 years older than me. I'm physically attracted to him and he is incredibly caring but we have no common interest. Although we can talk to each other for hours about various things. He is very ...

Why do I have feelings for much older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - hello i'm 15(almost 16 thank you very much) and partly normal but overall typical well except for the fact of liking men 15 to 20 years older than me. yeah it's great to fantasize about these gorgeous men but i hate thinking of what i can't have. ...

Should I meet him? Long distance relationship advice needed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I have met online a guy 8 months ago. He lives in Northern Europe, me in the South (distance 2200 km). Nothing serious at first, just flirting, sharing music and photos of each other. Age difference about 20. He owns a big garden and, as I live in a ...

Will he ever leave her for me or am I just being selfish ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I realize how this all sounds and I know the easy answer will be leave him; but I need some honesty. I have been dating a guy 10 yrs older than me for a year now. We met at work, planned to hook up once and that's it. Somehow once became twice, an...

I'm 15, and this 21 year old guy who has a GF in a long distance relationship, wants to have sex with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

8 July 2011 (F) - I am 15, and the man I am having issues with is almost 21. First off, he has a girlfriend. He is having a long distance relationship with her and he is a bit 'deprived', as some might call it. We started talking about 3 months ago and he always t...

He has a girlfriend but he's so irresistible I just can't help myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

8 July 2011 (?) - Hi everyone, after a year of this problem growing, i feel i can't quite fix this and need some advice! 2 and a half years ago i moved in with a guy, i've always considered him my flatmate even though we have an intimate relationship, we...

I'm having sex with my best friend's married father who is 54!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

7 July 2011 (?) - Basically, i am having sex with my bestfriends dad. I am 25 and he is 54. He is still married and has been for 27 years. His wife is 58 and he says she dows not share the same sexual desire as he does. It all began 3 month ago when i stumbled...

I don't want to lead him on. But does it sound like my teacher has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Ok so there is a teacher at my school and I don't call people amazing unless they are, but he really is amazing. I do not have a crush on him or anything, I guess I see him as a friend. But people at school keep saying he has feelings for me and to ...

Now he tells me he is 'too old' to have another child. It made me wonder whether I am okay with this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hi all I have a serious question and could do with some really good advice. I'm 25 and my boyfriend is quite a bit older at 45. We love each other very much, have a great friendship aswell as relationship. I know this man is the one I want to spend...

My new boyfriend is 6 years younger than me.....his mum is only 10 years older than me......is this morally wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Ive fallen head over heels for a guy who is 6 years younger than me. Ive just turned 28 and he is 21 almost 22. We are both crazy about each other. I am worried that this is morrally wrong. His mum is only 10 years older than me. And she wants to ...

I ran into my school teacher crush and after 12 years I still have a thing for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - I am 25. She is 40. She was my teacher in 8th grade. I hadn't seen her since. I ran into her the other night at a club. I went up to her to tell her who I was and we laughed and exchanged small talk. She was pretty drunk. I asked her about her ...

Teenage age differences, what's the big deal? Were me and my friends wrong back then?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

4 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I was brought up in Australia and many years ago when I was a young fella, I had a quite a large and great social group of friends. The ages of these people was anywhere from 15/16 to 22/23, and probably as many girls as guys. Now there were of ...

In love with a man my family would not approve of, all the while they are trying to arrange a marriage for me! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hello all, I am Indian,28 years old and in love with a white man 15 years my senior.We don't find our age differences an issue at all. From a cultural perspective, my parents don't approve of me marrying a white man and outside of our caste/religi...

This guy is the opposite of the type of man my parents want me to date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - I'm 18, just finished my first year in college and during that year, I met this amazing guy that really cares for me. He's such a great person and the first person to be so introspective and concerned about me. I've met his dad and brother, but he ...

Why is Divorce Ok? I am put off if I find a person is divorced.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Im asking the question: Why isnt it shameful to be divorced? Why would anyone admit it? to me it makes the person look selfish and non commital really.. I have to admit it puts me off a person quite a lot. What does everyone else think? ...

I want to forget this cheat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - hi, i am in a very pathetic situation. i loved a married man for 2 years. he was so nice to me. he showed a lot of love. i knew it was bad to love a married guy who' s 20 years older than me. yet, i loved as i got expected love from him. at last i ...

I fell for a teacher, he kissed me, sent me roses daily, I got sick, he moved on, what do I do now??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - My name is Alex (I'm a girl). I'm a freshman at highschool. When I started school I saw a very cute guy (he must be about 26) who was a teacher at the school (he isn't really my teacher, he doesn't teach at my classroom). We kinda liked each other, ...

What's your opinion on a 17 year old girl dating a 22 year old guy, under the cirumstances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - The circumstances are that they have known each other since the girl was 15 and then became close friends when the girl turned 16. Also the girl is mature about the possible relationship. What's your opinion on the age difference and chances on t...

Not knowing if she likes me or not is breaking me up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

2 July 2011 (M) - About 3-4 months ago my college started to employ these teaching assistants who were to help with our studies and coursework that students were finding difficult and I was allocated to one myself about 2 months ago. When I first saw her I didnt pa...

He said not to call him, fine! But why does he keep calling me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I broke up we my boyfriend of a year. He's 36 I'm 19. We broke up because he didn't have time for me and he's not the into me no more. I pretty much annoyed him most of the time. I decided that I don't want to be with someone that would be mean to ...

Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...