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*annapao26
writes:I broke up we my boyfriend of a year. He's 36 I'm 19. We broke up because he didn't have time for me and he's not the into me no more. I pretty much annoyed him most of the time. I decided that I don't want to be with someone that would be mean to me all the time. He said to please not call him ever again and I'm not going to call him ever again. However, he keeps calling me. He called me two days ago because my mom told him my bestguyfriend was here. He called me to say that if I was having fun, I told him why are you calling me if you know I'm not interested in no one else. Then he called me yesterday but I didn't pick up. Then I saw him that day with one of her daughters at the park, I was sitting on a bench with my cousins and this guy that works close by and likes to hang out once in a while, I'm not interested in this guy either but he things I am.later that day he calls me to tell me that it looks like I'm too busy having fun with him I told I'm not interested in him in the guy. He said he would not call me ever again I told him that I love him but if he thinks I'm that type of girl then he doesn't know me at all I also told him that as much as I love him I'm not gonna keep trying. I really do love him a lot and it hurts me so much that he thinks I would even think about dating other guys when he knows I love him so much. Why do is it that he keeps calling me if he asked me not to call him ever again?
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (2 July 2011):
i would move on. Sounds like you are wasting your time and if you keep telling him. You love him. He will think he can treat you however he wants and you will let him keep on doing it. Because you love him move on and forget about him, he aint worth it
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reader, dannapao26 +, writes (1 July 2011):
dannapao26 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo be honest I actually like it that he calls me because I'm not going to, however I don't understand why he's doing it. He called me like 3 times today, to tell me how I'm supposedly interested in this other guy and I'm not. I don't know how to explain to him that I'm completly in love with him and I would never be with someone else.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (1 July 2011):
 Who knows exactly why? He may actually miss you, even if he can not be the best FOR you.But, if you are done, and truly wish no contact with him, block/delete all of his contact info and the next time he calls tell him directly to STOP.You could tell him that anything beyond that is considered stalking and you can file charges!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011): i am in exactly the same situation i am 24 and he is 35 he used to treat me like that all the time i text him simply saying, 'i like you but i am not gonna let you treat like this we're over simple' Never heard from him again
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reader, la petite belle +, writes (1 July 2011):
 Do not even waste your time!!!! I have never believed in age. I think that love is blind but this guy just doesn't sound right. I think that he likes feeeling young and like he's still got game. Keep moving on... if he was done he was done! why does he keep callning you, I think it could be because he likes the idea of younger girl "not being able to live without him" but since you proved him right, he wants to reel you in!You are sooo young and have so much to offer! Don't fall for this! PLEASE! XOXO, la PETITE BELLE
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