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writes:So, this may be a little long, but I met a guy through a community group activity a few months ago. He asked for my number but never contacted me until when I never showed up for any of the hangouts with the group. We texted all day and night even if he was at work. Would a guy text a girl he just recently met but do not know so well a lot? I am sure I have feelings for him more than a friend, and i have been giving him signals.. he invited me to a hangout recently and I went. Lately, I invited him to small events and we went to the fair too. There were always friends around us though... would this signify that we just dont want it to be awkward? We enjoy the time spent together. He pokes me every time we see each other, and when i ask him he cannot explain it. His excuse is its a habit. Kind of unbelievable because i do not see him do it to anyone(friends we both know)yet. He invades my personal space and it just makes me feel kind of unsure what he is really thinking..He did ask me to go golfing with him once but no car. He just made a joke and said then once he returns from his go away for school in the next five or six years..It is a strange feeling that I miss him even though we are just friends. I do not know many things about him yet..but I do not really know why I am so drawn to him. He already considers me a good friend because we have many things in common.. but I do not know where he is moving towards.. He once mentioned love triangles between friends to me..and said that if a girl/guy likes a guy/girl then they should just let them know.. That keeps repeating in my head and I wonder why he pointed that out. I kind of feel he is speaking about himself somewhat. If he does like me why can he not just share. We are adults and if it does not work the way we want it, at least we have an answer. Continuing as friends is always possible..He is leaving to study soon far away. We have an age gap of like 5 years. I am 21. I am thinking about it day and night, so what does it all mean and what should I do?
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reader, Battle +, writes (11 August 2011):
I'm guessing he's older than you? (the work part) Kay I'm young, I'm just turning 16. But I relate a lot to that. My boyrfriend and I kinda new each other at first and then one random day when I saw one of my friends at the mall. He was with him. That night he texted me. We texted for everrrrrr. And still text the same amount, probably more. And when were together he pokes me too. I actually think it's just an excuse to touch you. When he does it move closer. I read one guys article saying that it means get closer idk. I may not be much help. But I'd just tell him how you feel. Just a simple. "I think I like you" or "I like you" should work.
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