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*mylee16610
writes:I am 17 and my boyfriend is 23 so bit of a big age gap, but i love him alot and im really worried as he lives a long way a way - meaning 160 miles.In the past ive been cheated on and hurt REAL bad and it took a long time to even consider having a relationship with my boyfriend but i am. He travels up pretty much every weekend to see me! So i know he must think alot of me, thing is im convinced he is going to cheat. He has done nothing or said anything to signal at this but im like in denial. When he's there i create these stories in my head of what he could be doing and i get really upset thinking what would i do if he actually did. Im moving down to where he is soon with my family but what do i do until then. When he is not here i miss him so much. I also worry about the sex thing, if he cant come to see me in like 3 weeks what if he gets bored of waiting for the sex and finds someone else :( ? Help please. Reply to this Question
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reader, juztin  +, writes (18 July 2011):
 Don't worry so much! Being cheated on is definitely not a good thing, and it does kind of make you weary of your future relationships, but you shouldn't let it get the best of you. Don't assume that your boy is gonna cheat, because then you're making yourself worry about something that probably isn't there.
If he's going to break up with you because he's bored because you're not having sex with him, then it's probably a good thing. Your relationship should not be based around sex. If he really liked you, he would fight the battles, NOT cheat on you, and stay with you, regardless of sexual intercourse.
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