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Archived questions from: June, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Is it okay to go out with her? No sex, of course!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - OK, what it is there's this girl who likes me a lot and I like her back! The problem is, she's 15 in November and I'm 17! Is it wrong to be going out with a girl who's 2 and a half years younger than me? Nothing will happen in terms of sex or ...

I love my parents and I love my boyfriend but I can't have both!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 24, and i've been in a great relashionship wit my boyfriend he is 42 my parents hate him because of the age difference and they think he is wrong for me but to be honest he is wonderfulllll,i Love him so much he really cares about me and ...

I'm worried that he's not as in to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hey everyone I am 25 and in my first serious relationship and have a few questions about sex: 1. When I am kissing my partner (he is 40) he doesn't seem to get aroused. He does when I do other stuff like give him oral but not when we make out..doe...

I want this relationship to work but his age is creating a problem for us in the bedroom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 41, I'm 24. We've been together 2 years. I go to Uni so we see each other for a month or so at a time, then we are apart for a month or 2. I love him very much. When I met him i thought he is my perfect man in so many ways and i co...

16 with a 7 month old baby, but my mum says I cant be with a guy who is 21! Is this true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - ok im 16 and i have a child thats 7 months old and i really like this guy but hes 21 and my mom said i couldnt be with him is that true? i didnt know because im emancipated....

Anger or abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hi everybody, i've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now although i think we just broke up for real. and i think i want to break up but for some reason i cant bear to be without him and i have a panic attack and freak out when we're cl...

We are having sex more frequently in our FWB. Does that mean we are getting more serious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, im a bit confused really at the moment, ive been sleeping with this guy since early march as in fb sort of thing, sometimes i see him sometimes i dont, but do txt eachother everyday Anyway recently ive kinda been seeing him a bit...

Is it wrong for me to date a guy who is 3 years younger than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - is it wrong for a 16yr old girl to date a 13yr old male...

What should I do? in a relationship with a foreign guy, much older than me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - I am a girl who is not confident about LOVE in a relationship. Now I meet a problem.It's really hard for me to write everything down here. I just need help! I've been in a relationship with a man for nearly a year. He's from other country and much...

I always like older guys and I cant seem to get over them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - So. I have just figured out that I like this guy... Problem is: he's 8 1/2 years older. I'm 16 and he's 25. It sucks because I always like these older guys, and as hard as I try: I can never get over them. How do you suggest I deal with this? ...

What does he mean when he says it is not the right time for us to officially be a couple?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - okay, lets start from the start. I am 16 going on 17 and female. i recently have been seeing a older person, male 24. we started off just as friends, but gradually we ended up kissing and cuddling. i made it clear i wasnt going to get sexual with ...

Will my parents ever accept my older boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - So, Here's the thing. I'm 17 and I turn 18 in December, and I am talking to this 23 year old who's bday is in March. We are sexually active and everything is going great! But, my parents dislike him because one night I went to go sneak out ...

Is There a Reason I Seem to Prefer Older Men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - First of all, I'm 17, the age on this is wrong. I was really good friends with this guy, lets call him chris, and I was completely in love with him. We slept together, then after two weeks of not talking we became fwb, then he started going out with...

I got drunk and gave him the wrong idea...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Recently I've gotten to know this guy, "Sean". We became really good friends quite quickly. Yesterday, I was in his house. His older (18) brother was there. We had a little bit of drink on us but his brother's pretty cool and wouldn't tell hi...

How do I tell them I'm not a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Hi, I would like to know your opinions and what I should do, I am 15 year old girl I am secretly engaged to my boyfriend and we have had sex many times, i am finding it very difficult to tell my parents that I have had sex so how would I tell them ...

How do I break this cycle of wanting the "thrill of threat" men???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - So here's the thing... I'm 16. I seem to have aquired a taste for older guys. Older guys that I can't have for reasons such as they are married or are dating or simply their is a rather big age gap. The thing is though, none of the things metio...

My friend says there must be something wrong with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - I started dating a guy who is almost forty years old. He's never been married and in his entire life he has had only two long term relationships, each of which lasted about two years. I wouldn't have thought anything of this, but a friend of mine...

I'm young and in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Hi. Im turning 15 in august. And im falling reall hard for somone who is 19 . He is an amazing person. He knows just how to make me smile and he has his life in track. But, the only problem is the age gap. he doesnt beleive me that people do this ...

Fallen for the older boy and need help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Im 14 but have always acted older for my age.. that is probably what explains whats been happening recently. I've always thought older boys were 'fit' or 'hunky',, whatever lol. But recently, I've seen someone who I KNOW i have really fallen for. ...

Is 12 years too much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

27 June 2010 (?) - Hey, I'm 22 and worrying about the age gap between my boyfriend and I. He's twelve years older than me and we've been friends since I was nineteen - I met him at 'work' if you can call it that (I play pro sport) - and we've been together for a year ...

Are teacher crushes of the same gender normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - I have this science teacher (female, age 50+ ?) that I really like. Like a lot! I can't wait until science class every day, and on the holidays I miss seeing her and feel pretty sad. When we have science I get really excited and when I get to talk ...

How do I let my teacher know I like him before school ends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - there is but one day of school left, and that will be the last time I see my crush. I would have enjoyed telling him my feelings, but he happens to be my teacher. We have always had amazing conversations, and he always tells me about his day. He ...

Is 12 years too big an age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 June 2010 (?) - Hey, I'm 22 and worrying about the age gap between my boyfriend and I. He's twelve years older than me and we've been friends since I was nineteen - I met him at 'work' if you can call it that (I play pro sport) - and we've been together for a year ...

Loves Me, But Not In-Love. No Explanation?

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25 June 2010 (M) - [Mod Note: Op's Original Title] I've been going out with my, as of last night, ex girlfriend for about 3 years now. She broke it off. Only two years in the age difference, but i think the maturity difference has a big gap. I've been in bad relation...

How should I handle all the cheating in my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - After i forund out that he was cheating i decided that i should try to work it out first b4 walking away,he suggested that we get a neutral person whom we can talk to like therapy, i agreed.The following week he gave me money and told me to go and ...

Should I give up on him and find someone my own age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - I'm 23 and the man I'm in a relationship with is 52 and divorced he and his ex-wife share custody of their 14 year old daughter. I really feel a connection with him but all my friends judge me for our age difference. All I ever hear is you have ...

I married a much older man. How do I deal with his impotence and still get what I need from a marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - I married a man 18 yrs older than myself. 2 decades later and a child I'm regreting my choices but feel obligated to stay in the marriage due to religious beliefs. My husband has been impoent for years and I have never cheated on him. I was 38 ...

Staying-out-of-trouble advice when meeting teens

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

23 June 2010 (M) - There seems to be a lot of information around about how to avoid predators and stuff on the Internet, but not much on how to avoided being called one. There's this teen I've been chatting on-line with for a while, who is talking about coming to see ...

How can I deal with this girl who keeps hitting on me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

23 June 2010 (M) - Where to begin. First I am posting anonymously because the girl that I have an issue with found my post on the user name last time. But my situation from before was that my neighbors are quite close with my family. This has been going on for nea...

How do I go about breaking up with him when he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

23 June 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this man for almost four months and I really, really like him. But, I'm not his girlfriend-he claims not to want one. He does the sweetest things for me, always ready to help and/or soothe me. He always misses me and I miss him too ...

Gay guy in relationship with divorced guy with grown up kids

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

22 June 2010 (M) - I am in a relationship with a guy for 6 years, we have never lived together and there is a 21yr age gap. I am 43. He used to be married and has two grown up kids in their early 30s, both in straight relationships, one with a kid of their own. ...

I'm 18, he's 36. Is that wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

22 June 2010 (F) - I know this is going to sound like another 13-in-a-dozen age gap question. But I need some advice. Sorry if this is long and boring, but I need someone to read through it. I'm a normal girl and I used to date guys my age. I had a couple of boyfri...

Age difference...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

21 June 2010 (F) - problem!!! hes 18 and im 15 but im turning 16 right after he turns 19 ... and i was wondering whether it was a bad age difference you know... is it really? like im too mature (from what everyone tells me ) and so is he. no sex involved cause im ...

Should I meet this 43 year old online friend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

21 June 2010 (?) - On wednesday I'm supposed to meet up with a 43 year old man off this chat room, I'm just not sure if I want to. We first started talking when I was 16 and he really wanted to meet me and we would talk fir hours on the phone an skype etc, i dec...

Would it be weird to ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 June 2010 (M) - Well I'm fifteen and I work in my dads shop and this girl whos 21 works in there aswell, we really really get along and we flirt all the time and I'm starting to like her a bit more than a friend, would it be weird to ask her out ?...

Should I date my teacher?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

21 June 2010 (M) - hi. i have had a crush on my teacher for a while. she is right out of college i believe shes 23 im a 18 year old senior entering my last week of school. i guess she noticed i liked her and asked me to have sex after school. i did and it was amazing. ...

I'm falling for my teacher! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

21 June 2010 (F) - so i am falling for my teacher. he is 23 and i am 17. we will both be 24 and 18 respectively this year. i dont know what to do. i know it's wrong but i really like him. we have had some deep conversations and we really connect. i just dont know what ...

Is trying to make me jealous a "dump-able" offense?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

20 June 2010 (F) - He tries to make me jealous, Is this a dump able offense? The guy I've been seeing for a month or so constantly comments on other women, be it the girl from running club, a co-worker or even the newsreader. He's very complementary of me too and ha...

Can anyone make sense of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 June 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to think of this guy, or what to do about it. He used to be my uncle's best friend, but they dont keep in touch now. This guy is only 11 years older than me. He first met me when i was 14, at my uncle's wedding. He said he liked me ...

He's 30 years older than me. Should I make a move on him???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

20 June 2010 (F) - Hello! So, I have a situation here... I am doing an internship and it ends in July, so I have ten more days. The thing is, I've fallen for a man there. But he is 30 years older than me, has been with his partner for 13 years, and has a son - who is ...

How can I tell him to back off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

19 June 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I was wondering if you could possibly help me out? Recently I found out that my best friend's eleven-year old brother has a giant crush on me. I'm fourteen, so that would mean that he is in sixth grade and I am due to be in ninth. From ...

I love a girl who is a lot younger than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

17 June 2010 (M) - Hello all. I don't really know how to start but a while ago I fell in love with a girl. But: she is a whole lot younger than I (12 or something) and I'm 16. And then I'm really shy so I haven't really talked to her. (At all, actually.) And I just ...

He hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend and is 14 years older than me, but he treats me like one - whats going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

17 June 2010 (F) - So, this man I'll call Mateo and I have been seeing each other for four months and I'm extremely confused. He has all these pet names for me, he's always offering his help when something comes up, we can't seem to stop kissing or snuggling closer to ...

Should I bother waiting for him, or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

17 June 2010 (F) - I come to this point that I’m, looking for others people opinion. Here is my story. I met this guy at work about 2 years ago we start sleeping together, there is a difference in years between us (he is 29 I’m 38); he said thats not a problem ...

I'm 22 and in love with my friend's 14 year old sister!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

17 June 2010 (M) - hi im 22 and i've fallen head over heels in love with my friends 14 year old sister, it wasnt intended and i cant help how i feel, I wont act on my feelings even tho i know she loves me, but when shes older(16-18) if she still feels the same then i ...

I told him I'd wait for him... but I'm already married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

17 June 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband for 24 years, he is very controlling with me. to make a very long story short this guy started talking to me at work, we got to really enjoy each others company. the only problem is that for one he's only 27 im 41, but he ...

I feel like I'd be taking advantage of this older man if we got together!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

16 June 2010 (?) - I'm 18 and I'm in a bit of a predicament, recently the man I've been seeing has told me that he has never been in love and he thinks he loves me, he has low self confidence despite being very very sexy and part of the reason we hooked up was because ...

She's 14 and I am almost 20. How can I postpone sex until she's older, without hurting her feelings?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

16 June 2010 (M) - I'm having a slight problem, and mainly just need some words of advice and support. I'm 19, turning 20 soon and I met a girl online sometime around 9 months ago, at first it was just friendly talk and me trying to cheer her up (she's had a very har...

Is this younger woman flirting with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

16 June 2010 (M) - I have read post here from younger ladies some who are attracted to older men much older than themselves like decades. Now I am only interested the legal age ladies as in my state that would be 18 where I live. I am attracted to a young lady...

Should I believe him, or is he just using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

16 June 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 4yrs now, we met when i was 16 and he was 36. He told me he was going through a divorce period with his wife and i decided to wait it out. he moved out his family home after two years for a quicker divorce process and ...