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writes:Hi. Im turning 15 in august. And im falling reall hard for somone who is 19 . He is an amazing person. He knows just how to make me smile and he has his life in track. But, the only problem is the age gap. he doesnt beleive me that people do this kind of stuff everyday. and that its not only us. So, What do do you think about me and him being together ?thanks. - young and and in love Reply to this Question
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reader, yukiakashi  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 Firstly, there are these few words which I want you to repeat to yourself everytime you are troubled by this situation. Yes, they are "I am not alone". It may be hard to believe but when you really open your eyes, you'll realise the number of girls your age stuck in this situation.If you don't believe me then let me tell you something, I am in this situation. I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 and sometimes it really sucks because we cannot tell our parents about this relationship because of the age gap. To hell with the age gap, I've heard of middle aged women getting married to old geezers. The only reason why people are against the age gap right now in our teenage years is simply because we are young. They are afraid of what the older guy might do.Tell your guy that an age gap is normal. After all, not all relationships have the perfect age and what not. Tell him in is normal as long as your parents approve because if he doesn't act now, it's just going to feel worst because soon he'll reach 20 and its weirder that way.I hope it helps (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): Heey I'm 15 too and I'd like to say that I've been in the same case and after this I realised that were not from the same type I mean he was 18 well you don't know what's ina 18-19 persons head unless you are you just finished college and evrth.keep this in my mind though now its personal.good luck
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reader, QZ +, writes (27 June 2010):
 Well, my boyfriend and I are four years apart and we are perfect for each other, so don't think that age is really that big of a deal. The more important thing is if he's good for you or not. Does he make you smile? Does he make you feel better when you're sad? Does he love you for you? If the answer is yes, then I say go for it. (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): I think your age gap is not an issue at all. It might seem like an issue now but when you are older your age gap will disappear. My husband is 12 years older than I am and it works really well....
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