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writes:okay, lets start from the start. I am 16 going on 17 and female. i recently have been seeing a older person, male 24.we started off just as friends, but gradually we ended up kissing and cuddling. i made it clear i wasnt going to get sexual with him, yet he stuck around.after a few weeks we started to get closer and he would stay over and i would stay at his. he never pushed me into having sex , but we did.we now have several times. but we arnt offically a couple. someone asked him why he hasnt asked me out yet, and he said its not the right time. when exactly is the right time, what does this mean ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Ditto. There is no relationship coming with this guy. He might have sex with you for a while longer but that's it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 June 2010):
It means you've been had, well and truly had. A 24 year old guy with a teenage girl, they have sex a few times and he says it's not time to be a couple? He's used you. He will continue to use you. You've been well and truly conned I'm afraid. Your best bet is to end it with him now and find a better guy who will commit. He knew what he was doing, and now he's just using you. Don't let him use you again.
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