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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

She's abusive. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend is 19 and i am 15. Recently we have been argueing lots because i went around to her house and found mens cloths and used condoms all over her place. So i asked her what was going on and she said she has had a few mates over for a ...

I'm worried that I look too young! How can I look older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I know most people are concerned about ageing and looking older than their years, but I'm worried that I look TOO young! I'm 23 years old, and I'm often mistaken for 16 or younger. Once or twice I have even been mistaken for 12 (of course this ...

I may have developed feelings for my boss who is flirty and has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I am 18 and have recently started working in a bar. My boss is very flirty and keeps making suggestive remarks. However he is in his 40's and has a girlfriend. I'm not sure if he is just being friendly or is like this with everyone else, he doesn...

She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...

The guy I like is five years older than me and flirts a lot, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - here it is. I am falling in love with the guy who is 20, and I am 15, well the age difference isnt my biggest conserne. what realy makes me sad, that he is a very cocky person, he isnt mean to me, and doesnt put me down, but i see him do that with...

Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers when you're only 13?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers? I am 13 and I have quite a few friends who are teachers, I sometimes have lunch with them, I have some of their e-mail addresses and even get hugs off them. They joke around with me and they...

He left me to get back with his ex, he says he still loves me yet he isn't returning to me, I'm so confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - sorry it's so long im 16 years old an i need some advise. u see, i have just recently come out of a relationship with L, he is 20 we were datin for 3 months an i fell in love with him it all started about a month ago when he said we need a b...

Will he think my love poem is creepy, or cute? Should I show it to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I wrote this tonight. It's about a guy that I really like. I am fourteen and he's seventeen. When we met we clicked right away, I am falling for him, and I know that he is too, but he thinks the age difference is a big concern. Should I show ...

I don't know what is happening to me or what I should do about either of these two guys!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - ok, this is really complicated. i'm in love with this lad who i've been good friends with for 2 years, we have talked about seeing each other but he's worried about the age difference, i'm 16 and he's 21, but he still talks to me all the time, ev...

Is age just a number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Ive been single for an year and a half now after a 5 1/2 year realtionship which i had to run away from because of domestic abuse. Im scared of being hurt again like that and this is why im asking for some advice im 22 this guy likes me and i like ...

My girlfriend is troubled by our ten year age difference. How can I help her get over this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - I'm 40 and the girl I'm dating is 30. She's troubled by the age difference, mainly because of a mortality issue. Other than that she said I'm a great guy, etc, but wanted to break off our early relationship. I convinced her to give us another month ...

I've fallen for someone new. How can I let my current boyfriend down gently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - been with my bf for nearli year and i really love him but ive got off with other lads behind his back and the latest lad ive met ive realli fallen for and we wanna be together,im going to tell my boyfriend bout us but hes just taken me on holiday ...

My older friend seems to have stopped talking to me since I told him how I felt. I really just want to stay friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - hello mates!!!!!! im in a kinda tight spot and i really need helpyou see 3-4 years ago meet this incredible guy one problem was that hes 12 years older than me.but we became friends.as the time went by i started to devolp romantic feelings for him....

Is it possible to live sexually frustrated or will it just get harder as time goes on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5992 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - I am in a situation and wondering if others can share their wisdom. I am in my mid 20s and have been in a relationship wiht a man now in his early 40s for almost four years. Things were absolutely perfect to begin with but ever since we've live...

I am confused and hurt by his cruel actions regarding me and my son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - hi everyone, im a 36 yr old woman whose been dating a 57 yr old man for 2 yrs, and even though things havent been that good over the last few months as they were in the beginning i never dreamed he would treat me and my son the way he has over the ...

Why can't a 14 yearold date but not sleep with a 26 year old?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - I was just wondering something. You know how they say you shouldn't see anyone who's really older than you, like in a loving way? like say you're a teen who likes or thinks you're in love with someone say in their 20's or 30's. say you're like 14 ...

I'm 13 and might be in love with my father's best friend... or is it just admiration?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - I love a man that is 14 years older then me. I think about him all the time but I don't know if he loves me. He always talks to me and makes me feel that he loves me but sometimes I wonder. But there is one other slight problem he is my father's ...

He doesn't cheat, but he's always busy so our life is full of problems. I need advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, am dating a 45yr old guy am 23 and the guy has 3kids from different mums the problem is that we keep arguing everytime i ask him about his last wife,all he does is tell me to stop nagging him.we dont spend much time together coz he is wo...

My husband told me he is attracted to her but they are only friends, do I have reasons to worry?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - my husband of 19 years met a 23 year old waitress in our local cafe. She has sinced moved to another state but they talk to each other 3-4 times a day. He seems to get upset when i ask if he has talked to her and what they talked about. he has ...

Would I be better off in a relationship with someone of my own age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

23 July 2008 (M) - So i'm a gay 18 year old guy, and am going out with a 36 year old. True not the most conventional of relationships, but i've known i like older guys, so that's sorted. We've been going out for over a year, and like with most relationships we've ha...

If you love your teacher should you leave them alone and let them go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - My friend is loving this teacher and i don’t she’s gay but she’s obsessed with her…and the teacher has just left and she’s just depressed and heartbroken.. She’s asking me if you love a teacher should you Let Them go??? Please post your tho...

He's 44 and she's 19. Is he a pervert?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - the man i am sleeping with, wants an open relationship, i am in love with him so go along with it just to be with him. Now he tells me hes met a 19yr old girl and wants to see her again cos they have a connection - he's 44! does that make him a ...

I fear I may have fallen victim to an online predator....help me please, should I meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

22 July 2008 (M) - I'm a 15 year old male and i recently met an older man off of a forum. It wasn't a dating forum or anything, and we started off as just friends, just talking about stuff. On my account it said i was 21 (I had listed my age as that to be taken more ...

Is our age gap really such a big deal if I'm 23 and she's 16?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm a 23yo male who has just started dating a 16yo female. We both really like each other and she isn't bothered about the age gap so is it ok???...

Is it normal for a 42 yr old man to fancy a 19 yr old girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - is it normal for a 42 yr old man to fancy a 19 yr old girl. The man i'm shaggin and love tho he wont have a relationship with me, has told me that he's met a 19yr old girl who gave him her number and asked him to call her so they could meet for ...

I'm 15 and he's 20, is it ok for us to be together or should I wait?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Okay. So here's the deal. I met this guy.. lets call him Justin (not real name).. on Friday... well no I've been talking to him for SO much longer... I've been talking to him since i was 13 and he was 18 but now I'm 15 and he's 20. I actually...

I am the youngest girl he's ever dated, how can I help make him more comfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hi just wanting opinions on an 18 year old dating a 23 year old... I don't have a problem with it but my guy (23) seems uncomfortable at times. He has dated girls much older than himself in the past but I am the youngest he has ever dated. How can ...

My ex is depressed and made threats! Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - I have a dilemma and i am hoping someone will be able to help me. Me and my ex bf have been off and on for a while now. Recently we have had huge arguments that have lasted for days. We both have said things we didn't mean. However, he has ...

I'm dreading his last day but what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

20 July 2008 (?) - Ive been mates with a lad now for just over two years and I really really really like him. Not just as a mate...I think Ive fallen for him too. Hes in my thoughts CONSTANTLY, I stay awake thinking of him at night, everything about him is perfect to ...

She is only 15, too young to date with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

20 July 2008 (M) - Me and my best friend have had feelings for each other for a long time. Now me, im very respectful when it comes to the ladies. I understand that if someone is too young for sex, then thats the way it is and im fine with that. There is a 4 year age ...

Can I love him even though it's over the internet and he's older?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

19 July 2008 (F) - I pretty sure I'm in love with an amazing guy I know from the internet, he is three years older then me, and I always have to reasure him it doesn't matter how old he is because three years is nothing really. The question is, can I love him? Id it ...

My new boss changed my life for the better, we are friends. Should I confess my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 July 2008 (M) - My life was way bad for most of the last 15+ years of my life.9 months ago I got a new Boss 15 years my senior.And she made a huge change in my life,for the better.I was finally happy.she paid so much attention to me I felt great.Now she has ...

I'm so confused, what should I say to him, does he really love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6000 days ago

18 July 2008 (F) - Hey im having trouble..! cuz i realli like this guy who is 16 and im only 14 but i have been snoging him for a bit now..! he's really nice but we're not goin out together.! nd already he told me he loves me and i always say it back cause i do . and...

He's much older than me, and I don't allow him to kiss me. I'm not sure I understand everything about love and lust. Opinions, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - I am 20 year old. Last year I met a man who is 38 through a common friend and we became good friends. I know it sounds a bit odd as the age difference is too much to be friends.he is divorced. After knowing him for four months one day he told me ...

Does he love money more than he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - I've been with this man for two and a half years. He is 18 years older than me. We get on well and the relationship is going from strength to strength. He always says he loves me and I love him too. I have just got my divorce settled. I have got ...

Could I go out with a younger guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - Hiya, Theres this guy i work with and well lately we've been talking a lot and getting quite close. Hes such a nice guy and were getting along so well. The thing is.. hes 17, 18 next april and i'm 18, 19 in two months. People keep saying you c...

I feel I have to vie with pretty younger females for the attention of men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - With all this easy internet accesss and lap dancing clubs and easier access to plenty of women its almost impossisble to find a man who wants to have a steady relationship with me. I am reasonably attractive for my age but its so easy now for guys...

18-year age difference, parents say NO, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I'm with a 38 year old man who represents everything I want in a partner. We 'clicked' the moment we met and now have an undeniable connection; we just seem to fit together. I love him deeply, and he feels the same. We REALLY ...

She broke up with me because she thought I wouldn't want to go to her prom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

17 July 2008 (M) - I am 20 and was in a relationship with 17 girl. She ended it because she thought i wouldnt want to go to her homecoming and prom, etc. She said she had too many high school and friend things to do. I want her back. What do I do?...

Can my best friend date my much younger brother? Her marriage is basically over.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - I have a best friend who just move back to me and her marriage is basically over! My brother comes and live with me every summer and this summer is no different. My best friend comes to my house everyday and her and my brother got closer she is 27 ...

Article about student teacher things....

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16 July 2008 (F) - Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. So their own pa...

I think I'm in love with someone older than me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - Hi my name is Katie and well I like this guy who is 5 years older than I am. I think that he likes me too but he seems to act differently when he is around his family than when he is alone. See, I think that the reason I am even attracted to him ...

Fallen for an older guy. Could it happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I have an issue and i think i could use some feedback, and i'd also like some advice from men. I'm 17 and working at a radio station this summer, where i met a man with whom i work together with and i'm very attracted to. We spend a lot ...

He is asking me to marry him but his age is an imposing hinderance to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Iam 24 years of age. i have recently met a 42 year old man who is very kind, loving and considerate in evry possible way. However, the age difference between us makes me fear to commit to him. he is asking me to marry him but his age is an imposing ...

Our age difference isn't that big, how can I win this guy over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6004 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Ill make this quick. I met this guy, I liked him right away. He would always call me, and ALWAYS want me to go see him. When we hooked up, it got out pretty fast. People started talking and they told him that I was lying about my age. He got mad...

He called me a cheap slut etc. etc. Yet I still went back to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - Hi all, my question is how do i get over my anger towards my ex and regain my shattered confidence. He was separated when we hooked up 6 yrs ago, but assured me that his marriage was over. I was 21 he was 35 and they have one child. Anyway...

Should I be worried about my sister's relationship with an older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - Here's another question of does age really matter! My sister, whose almost 19, has recently started dating a 32 year old. I've never met him and neither has any of my family, but her good friend, whose 23 and also knows him and introduced them,...

Fed up with one position, one sided sex with an older man.

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm a 23 year old female involved with a 56 year old male. My problem is our sex life is pretty much one side. He only wants to have sex in the missionary position since he believes this is the only way to get me pregnant. He tends to fo...

Can a 16 year old date a 30 year old legally?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

14 July 2008 (?) - When you're 16, can you go out with a 30 year old or older without getting into trouble with police??...

I like a man 14 years my senior - what should I do? I can't keep my mind off him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - In my job I have met a lot of people. I first met "tony", the manager of a different department, when I was cleaning. He struck me as odd and quirky but I was not attracted to him. I thought he was good looking, but nothing more. Then one day I just ...