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*heoneandonlybutterfly
writes:I have a best friend who just move back to me and her marriage is basically over! My brother comes and live with me every summer and this summer is no different. My best friend comes to my house everyday and her and my brother got closer she is 27 and his 18. They did not think how I will feel about this and they dont care if i was hurt at all all they care about was themself. Well i have a problem and my boyfriend said how was she my best friend? I did talk to them and it dont do no good they dont care. I ask her what can a 18 boy who has not yet finish high school do for you?? All she said was alot you dont know him like i do please give me a break because i am also 28 and i have took care of my brother since he was born of course i know him when he is with a woman he think just about her nobody else not school just nothing i dont understand why would both of them would do this to me what should i do? O yell they also told me that they are not having sex yet they are take it slow!!! yell right!!
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reader, Theoneandonlybutterfly +, writes (17 July 2008):
Theoneandonlybutterfly is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have a problem because my best friend is a hopper what i mean is she hops to one man then the other when she is done with them or done with her she knows what she is doing but i love her for who she is am not try to change her and now she doing it to my brother. My brother grow up with her and he know how she is and not caring why is this?? And no i am not jealous i just dont what him to get hurt because if he or her gets hurt am in the middle because they talk to me about it and come see me all the time both of them and then i feel that i meant lose one of them because i be around one other that's what i said what should i do!!
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 how could they do this to you? sweetheart no offence but i dont think they did this to hurt you, in fact this isnt about you at all. they obviously like eachother and respect eachother so let them be happy. and she is also probably right - you dont know him like she does because she is seeing him as a boyfriend and not a brother - very different thing.
let them be and stop being so unfair. after all she is your best friend so obviously she is a very good person and do you not want your brother to be with someone good and someone you know?
i think you need to stop thinking about yourself right now and let them be happy.
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