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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I'm afraid he won't be 'in love' with me. Is 4 months long enough to tell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - so i've been dating a new guy since my last relationship ended horribly. he's wonderful- older than me by a few years but he cares for me and shows it very often. we've been together for about 4 months- i have issues with trust and he has been ...

Is this relationship too risky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. His daughter is 5 years younger,and his son 10 years older. I'm only 23 and he is 53. Is it going to work on the long run? Can we have plan to have babies ? He has grand children.. Right now ,he can still ha...

He's not replying to my texts, am I wasting my time here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi all , I have been speaking to the same boy on the internet for like 3-4 months but haven't met him. I know he's not a perv or anything as I have spoken to him on the phone and I know his little cousin. I have strong feelings for him and I think ...

Now that he's not my teacher can I tell him that I love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - The man I love is 10 years older then me. He was my karate teacher. Now that he's not my teacher can I tell him that I love him? I'm still not sure if he loves me though. He asks my mom about me and calls me beautiful but I don't know if he is doing ...

I am drawn to this man but the age gap scares me, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm torn. I met a 22-year-old man on a plane this past weekend. We really hit it off and had a lot in common. When we got off in LA, he asked for my number, saying he'd like to take me out to dinner. I told him it would easier for me to reach him,...

The note I'd love to give to my Spanish teacher, but won't...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I’ve had massive crush on my Spanish teacher for few years. I know nothing is going to happen between us; she’s married and I’m under-age. I sure miss her when I don’t see her, especially on weekends. I’m really having a hard time now since we ...

In love with my former teacher...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - A few years ago I fell in love with my science teacher. He is about thirteen years older than me and I'm so lost without him. I was only fourteen but then when I left for high school I grew depressed. I remember crying because I thought I'd never ...

Is it ok to consider sex with a woman 15 years older than me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - Ladies reply… I have been seeing a woman who I like a lot who is 15 years older than I am. Is it ok to consider sex with her? I would like to very much. If we do it I am considering how to please her. Any advice to pleasing an older woma...

Big age difference! End it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Im dating someone whos 19 years older then me...and i dont know if i should finish it because of the age gap. Help? ...

I am 38, she is 19 and my daughter's football coach! Is this age gap too big?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I am 38 years old male, I have 2 girls, 11 and 8. I have 80% custody of my girls. About 8 months ago, my older daughter's soccer coach , hurt herself while playing soccer, she is 19 years old. I am a physical therapy doctor. She didn't have ...

I want to be with him but I'm not sure I want to marry him... yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - hey guys reallly need help now... im 20 years old and my boyfriend is 23 which is really not to bad however we have been together offically 6 months but i think hes getting a bit to ahead of himself... he introduced me to his parents and i spent ...

If I don't know how to kiss, my HS Senior won't go out with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - ok here the thing I am a sophmore and there is this guy that I like but he is senior. So with that being said next fall he is going to college."( In my eyes he tried to get with my sister because he called me and instead he spoke to her on ...

What do I do when my boyfriend's 21 and I'm only 13?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend online, and had no intention of ever getting together with him. But we talked, and found we had a lot in common... and eventually it got to the point where he told me he was attracted to me; I reciprocated the feelings. ...

I need to go, but does he really need to know?! And how will I do it, if sex with him is so good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5803 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - i'm 19 and i've been sleeping with a 29 y/o for the past 6 months and well in all honesty..have no intention on stopping .. however, i'm also in a relationship with boy i've been dating for the past 2 years(comming up jan1)/who's acctually ...

I want to leave him or should I give him some leeway as he is so young?

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23 December 2008 (F) - hi i am a 24year old mum to a 2year old boy and am 5months pregnant with my second son.i have been with the father of both boys for 3years and we break up get back together all the time but i have caught him out lying about his whereabouts, he comes ...

Why do older men think they have a chance with younger girls?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - ok i'm a 22 year old woman and i have a question about old men, like 40+. basically why do they try and flirt with us younger girls, why on earth would we be interested in someone who is old enough to be our fathers?! seriously, i hate it when i a...

Is he justified in making my life hell because he 'loves' me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Well theres this guy I work with hes 30, I'm 19, was 18 at the time. He kinda manipulated me into a 'relationship', making me feel sorry for him, etc. He used to accuse me of sleeping with guys, having AIDs,go through my bag and my phone, he was ...

How hard should I try to pursue this? She's younger and I'm still legally married.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5805 days ago

22 December 2008 (M) - My situation is quite complicated and the question is at the end. The primary problem is I am head over heels for a young woman at work. I am 17 years her elder. I am a professional Firefighter and Paramedic and she is about to complete her ...

No more Mommy Dearest!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5805 days ago

22 December 2008 (M) - I've been in a relationship 19 years. My partner is 11 yrs younger than I am. How important is participating in home activities, ie, know which light switch is which; know in which cabinet the glasses are kept; picking up after yourself and even ...

Is it okay to remain friends with him even though he's married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Over the past year I have developed strong feelings for a former teacher of mine. We became close during my senior year of high school. By that I mean we would occasionally have lunch together and gossip, joke around and sometimes have some pretty ...

How can it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - How can a relationship of a 9 years age difference work? I really like this guy (older), but it would obviously be against the law to date him now. Somehow my parents managed it (13 year age difference), but they met at work when they were both l...

Lovesick over teacher!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5805 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Please help cupid! i've been making myself lovesick for the past year over this teacher of mine. I know everyone hates hearing about these, but i myself, hate me for feeling this way, because no matter how hard i try to forget about these fe...

9 years age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I like this guy who's like 25 and 9 years my senior. I would never date him now because that's obviously illegal, but could I date him later on in life? How could I manage that? I mean, I have a greater age difference with one of my brothers (I'm 11 ...

I don't know which one is stronger, my head or my heart, how can I get over this teacher crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - I'm so tired of being in love with this guy, that i can't have. I thought i would get over him soon, because it'll never work out...but yet, im still sitten here, love sick, and tired of it. I need help! I don't know how to get over him. Here's ...

How can I tell him my real age???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Ok here's the story, I've been on this chat site for about 2 years, and because I was under the age you were allowed to join, when I joined, I obviously lied about my age, basically saying I was 3 years older than I actually am, I've built some very ...

Should I pursue things with my teacher?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - I know what all your replies will be with this question, 'oooh finish it now, or he'll lose his job' or 'you'll both get hurt and left with nothing' but listen to my story anyway. Basically, i'm 16. I go to a private school in the north of the cou...

One moment he won't be able to keep his eyes off me, but then another he doesn't even pay the slightest attention to me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help! I know this person that "might" be attracted to me, but I'm not for sure. I've debated whether he does, for over 7 months now. This is really hard to explain, but he's kind of off limits, ok I'll just say it, I think wh...

Is it just flirting or something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I'm 19, going to be 20 in two weeks. I go to school 7 hours from here but my family lives here and I come home and work during breaks and such. I work at an insurance company. Basically, we have a lawyer who just turned 37 a few days ago who works ...

Should I wait for him to grow up more?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - what can i do he is 12 and im 15 i really like him and he likes me too he is friends with my ex and me and my ex broke up 1 month ago but i have liked him for about 4 months but the age is what is killing me and i dont know if i should wait about 6 ...

I would deny it to anyone who asks, but I am crazy about my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Am I in love? I think about her constantly-I can't get my mind off her. Everything reminds me of her, and something inside me hurts when I realise I won't see her for however long. My heart flutters whenever I see her, and I agonise constantly over ...

Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - Kissing and the older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Is it true that in general women like to kiss? Is it ok to kiss an older woman after the first date? Or in general should it wait until the second or third date? Should she take th...

Where are some good places to take an older woman out on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - I am interested in dating an older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? Where are some good places to take an older woman out on a date? Hiking? Café/restaurant? Club? Dancing? Other ideas? I think women like shopping. Does shopping ...

Dating for a week and he's already sexual. I'm not used to this and feel weird, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a week now and today we were making out on the sofa and he got under my shirt and touched me through my jeans. I feel it's wrong and i dont want him to think im a slut but i feel so weird and i ...

The too nice older boss that you need to avoid.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - This is a little bit of a story and a how to on how to not be taken advantage of. I was given a job right off the bat by a man who owned a shop. At first i was young(17) and naive to think, maybe it is my personality and knowledge that got me the ...

Do you think he may just be into teenage girls, and when I reach 25 he might go for someone younger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - This is a bit of a weird one. I am 19 years old. My boyfriend is 25. We are with each other nearly two years. Though I don't act/look my age (most people think I am 25, my boyfriend innitially thought this from my character before we star...

How do I tell my parents that I'm dating their friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I've been seeing my dad's friend for a few months, he is quite a bit older than me. How do I tell my mum and dad about it?...

I like my friend's older brother! How to make him notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - so there's this guy i like but i'm not exactly sure if he also likes me, he's really cool around me like he would always hug me n all that, me n him would always have the "eye contact" but then one of my girlfriends he's always joking around with ...

Should I wait for any positive reaction?

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14 December 2008 (F) - Hi every body my problem starts when my friend and i felt love to each other although he is much younger than me about 14 yrs.we didnt fell any age differences between us till one day he quarralled with our boss and he decided to go to somewhere ...

Am I just kidding myself over this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - ok i have already posted this question. but i think i jumped around too much so i'll start from the begining. could get boring see this guy whom is 27, and i also work with him.it all started out innocent we flirted and joked at work with each ...

How can I be his friend without leading him on? He's younger and attracted to me.

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14 December 2008 (F) - It's kind of a long and involved story, but here goes: I work as a tutor at the college I'm attenting, and one of my co-workers has confessed that he is attracted to me - which is fine, but I don't feel the same way. He is nineteen and I'm twen...

He said we can never be together but he won't leave me alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Back in June I ended up sleeping with a guy 15 years younger then me. He gave me the line oh don't catch feelings etc so I didn't I am 38 really don't plan on anything more from him. Well he started calling, texting and hanging out with me all the ...

Leave or forgive? He denies we have a problem!

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13 December 2008 (F) - i am a 24 years old woman married to a 48 years old man. the wedding was last august and since then i felt that he changed a lot, he s no more the sweet romantic fiancé i had. well in my society that's normal especially that we are living with his ...

How do I stop thinking about my teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - I am a girl of 16 and I think I am in love with my teacher who is a lot older. Is this just a stupid crush and if so how can I stop thinking about him? We hardly talk anymore and he has never said outright that he likes me, but I read to much into ...

Financial problems and swinging issues are putting a strain on this relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

12 December 2008 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles and readers, I recently found this site and found it to be so insightful. I have a problem that I have been bouncing around in my mind for the longest time and really would like a different perspective on this. If anyone ...

My older hubby wants kids but I'm not ready for parenting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I’m 28 and my husband is 46, The problem is that he desperately wants to have kids but I don’t feel ready, I’m not even sure that I want to have kids at all but I’ve decided that if I do choose to get pregnant I’d rather do it when I’m well int...

I'm not as important to her as she is to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - ************ JEALOUSY ************** I am jealous to do with my partner's sexual past. She is 15 yrs older. I was a virgin and hadn't even kissed a girl! She had been married for 6 yrs (still has ex's surname and has a child-whom I adore) and had...

She is 17 years older, married, but I love her, should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - I'm in love with a married woman, 5 years ago.I can't get her out of my mind. She loved me too, but she didn't want to betray her family.But ,what is a shame, we are so much a like , it was like the most incredible match ever. She is my only ...

Is our sex illegal and considered rape? Also, could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we didnt use any kind of protection. We are in a bit of a rut because he is 21 and I am 17. He left the decision to me about if we should or not, so can the law still call it a form of rape? It was ...

What are the chances this relationship will turn into marriage??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - My friend is 14 and her boyfriend is 19. what are the chances that they will continue dating/have feelings for each other long enough to get married (at the earliest when she turns 18)? They have been dating about a year if that matters. ...

In love with my best friend and a long distance older guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Ok so this guy i have been talking to is wonderful. But he lives an hour away!!! He is so sweet, no joke. He is great at soccer, and school. He is still a virgin (very good) and he is a Junior. but i am a freshman! which means my dad wont approve. ...