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writes: Ladies reply…I have been seeing a woman who I like a lot who is 15 years older than I am. Is it ok to consider sex with her? I would like to very much. If we do it I am considering how to please her. Any advice to pleasing an older woman? I want her to enjoy the sex? What kinds of things do older woman like sexually? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): hi, i would say go for it man. i have a BF who is 11 (him 25, me 36) years younger than myself and we are still together after 18 months.of course we have our ups and downs, just like anybody else. dont listen to what other people say. just do what you think is best. good luck,C.
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reader, deseperada  +, writes (2 January 2009):
My boyfriend is 9 years younger than me. At first, he wasn't that good in bed. I actually enjoyed teaching him how I liked it. Now he is the best lover.
The good thing is that we love each other so it's not only sex. I would say that you would learn a lot from her. Don't worry about not being able to please her. All the experience she has, you can only get it by practicing! Don't expect to be the best lover the first time you are with her. More likely, this won't happen. Make sure you talk about what both of you expect from this. otherwise, someone could get hurt!
Good luck!
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reader, Bethdoth  +, writes (29 December 2008):
Hi, I have been in a relationship with a guy 12 years younger than me and the sex has always been awesome. The only problem is that eventually one or both of you may want more than just sex. I guess it's importsnt first of all to know what it is you want from this woman,and if it's only sex then you both need to be ok with that. Otherwise, enjoy! You may learn a thing or two.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): i would assume she would enjoy the same things younger females enjoy but maybe you should try asking her. dont just randomly bring it up though....ease into it.
hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): I wouldn't suggest someone of your age group have sex with someone 15 years older. She is in her 30s. From what I hear 30 year olds have much different expectations and geneally want someone who is mature. No offense, but I'm not sure it's a good idea to add sex into the mix of your relationship. Are you sure she is aware you feel this way about her? It's a pretty big age difference, you must be one mature guy to be seeing someone so much older than you are. I'm in your age group so I can't really say much in regards to what older women want sexually, but I ask you to stop and make sure both of you are on the same page and really willing to get into a sexual relationship.
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