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*odiex
writes:Hi all ,I have been speaking to the same boy on the internet for like 3-4 months but haven't met him. I know he's not a perv or anything as I have spoken to him on the phone and I know his little cousin. I have strong feelings for him and I think I love him but I feel stupid as I haven't met him before. I am 15 and he is 19 but we are going to wait until my birthday 16/04 until we meet and decide if we are going to have a proper relationship but recently he hasn't been repyling to my text's. I really really like him and he says he feels the same. Do you think I'm wasting my time? xxxx
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reader, roadman +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Well you need to find out if her got credit?
You know how it is in your teens its rough for phone cred's out here!
If your chasing someone then its never going to be a waste of time letting them know how you feel from time to time,it does get a bit boring sometimes when you don't get a reply your looking for or a reply at all,but its like the lotto you got to buy a ticket to even have a chance of winning it..so if you don't try you can't win,you have to just make up your mind what it really worth to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): Its very normal to feel so at your age. I remember how impatient i got sometimes when my crushes didnt get back to me. Just wait or soemtime and do not overwhelm him with your texts or calls. Make him feel like hes not the first priority in your life and he will be attracted by that.
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reader, alanna_HD +, writes (31 December 2008):
 If thats how you feel about him, then your not wasting your time! There could be several reasons why he hasn't replied to your txts, but if he's ignoring your calls or emails then maybe he's the one wasting your time. He might have meet someone else but maybe just doesn't know how to tell you yet? If I was you I wouldn't lose hope just yet. If your sure he feels the same about you then it won't hurt to tell him how you feel right now, just explain that you really like him but that your starting to feel a little hurt that he hasn't replied. If he really does feel the same way then he'll be quick to reasure you. But if you don't here from him, i'd say he's not worth getting upset over and i'd move on and forget him. And I know you've probably been told all this before, but you can never be too sure who exactly your talking to on the internet, so if it does work out, make sure that you can trust that this guy is really who he says he is, for your safety.
But I hope this has helped some and that things work out for you.
Good luck xXx
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