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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i am a 24 years old woman married to a 48 years old man. the wedding was last august and since then i felt that he changed a lot, he s no more the sweet romantic fiancé i had. well in my society that's normal especially that we are living with his mother at the same house. we've been having agressive and severe discussions every now and then. and most of the time he insults me and when i ask for the reason he just acts as if we have no problem or had no dispute. the worst thing is what i discovered this morning when i read his text messages. he sends and recieves text messages from another woman who is married and has a child. i don't know her but that's what i understood from the texts, she asks him even for money and he telks about how he misses their going to the farm and her telling him how cold she is as he's opening the door. i got so angry and started crying when he came asking for the reason and accusing me for searching in his personal objets making it a problem to distract me fom the real issue we were having. when i was blunt and told him what i read he denied everything and said that the text messages where scenarios for his friend who is working in show business. i feel insulted and so angry that i can't stay a moment with him. what shall i do? leave or forgive?
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