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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm 19 and i've been sleeping with a 29 y/o for the past 6 months and well in all honesty..have no intention on stopping .. however, i'm also in a relationship with boy i've been dating for the past 2 years(comming up jan1)/who's acctually aware ive cheated on him..with this man..took off to cities with him..ect..he loves me so much, he loves me to much..but he deserves to be loved back.. i need to leave,i know that..but i think i should stay till after our aniversary.. i just culdn't imagine..as heartless as ive been the past 6 months of this relationship.. i dont have any long term feelings for this other man..ive just never been so sexual compatible with someon,ever - its so good i can't give it up..but ..i just can't look a person who thinks im the 'one' in the eyes, knowing i can see tomorrow without him.. any advice on HOW - to GO? .. we've lived together since we started dating..well 3 months into it.. apartments and everything together.. and this has to be the END. do i tell him the WHOLE truth, do i tell him that ive been untrue with more than just this man .. but with a few business men just for the thrill and because i love sex? i dont think i can do that.. Reply to this Question
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (23 December 2008):
 If you'r not ready to commit to a relationship, then stop it. The worse pain, for most people, is the pain of being betrayed. Being betrayed is even worse than a break up, for some*.
Do what you want to do with your life, but try to live it to affect people around you in a positive way instead of negative.
"Happy anniversary, bye now" I don't see the logic of this.
You're not the only one who loves sex, and it's alright to experience it.
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