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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

How can I overcome my shyness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - i am 15 and i am dating a 12 year old i hav had a major crush on me for 9 months and a couple of months ago she told me she loved me, i asked her to b my girlfriend, she siad yes, we have been dating 3 weeks and we still havnt spoke face 2 face, we ...

I'm 21, she's 17... Is this too much of a difference?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - im 21 and thinking of asking a girl out thats 17. is that too young? opinions please....

I had a crush on my teacher and we are still in contact now that I am at Uni

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I had a crush on a teacher for 5 years at secondary school. Am now at university and we are still in contact, texting and emailing. What should i do? People used to joke about us and they still ask me how she is and things. I think i love her, she ...

I am worried my much older boyfriend will kick it during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I married my husband 10 years my senior for his money. I was happy in it because of the money. Years later I realised money is not everything and I was really not happy in it. I've just divorced him and met this man 20 years my senior. It's the ...

How do I keep this relationship alive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Any suggestions on keeping an 8-month relationship from becoming "boringly comfortable"? * cliff notes version: **been together 8 months, known eachother for 16mo. ** Age gap relationship, I'm older ** everything is still good (no fig...

Which guy do I choose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm in love with a 35 year old man and I'm 19, I look and act more matured than my age and he looks much younger and acts younger than his age. I don't know why I feel this way about him, we've had our ups and downs yet we still love each other and ...

I'm not a material girl but this older guys meaness with money bores me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am 40 and in the middle of settleing my divorce. We've been married for 20 years. I met this man 16 years older than me. I love the affection he gives to me. He's loaded but very mean with money. He wont go out for a meal or spend a bit more...

Would dating this older guy, my uncle's buddy, be a good thing or a bad thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Hi.A couple of nights ago,i bumped into a man i've seen before, in a nightclub.I last saw him last year and when he saw me then he said he thought i was sexy !.That was the first time i saw him.I was out with my uncle,This man knows my uncle and ...

Could the age difference have something to do with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Hi I'm 19 and I work with the guy I like. What do I do when he said that he won't have a relationship with a co-worker? And one of our friends say's that they're sure it's not that he doesn't like me. There is also an age differents he's 34, could ...

I'm 40 and he's 20 years older. My family say he's too old. Is there a future here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I am 40 just filed divorce and I met this man 20 years older than me. We go dancing every Saturday night and have sex whenever we are together. All my families and friends do not like what I am doing. And they think there is no future as he is ...

He makes me feel secure and wanted, but when I think about his age I wonder if I have taken a good decision. He's 18 yrs older.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I am 45 and my husband is 50 just divorced and I met this man 18 years older than me. He has been supportive throughout my divorce. He has just recovered from colon cancer when I met him. He's got no children. He said I am a huge boost to him and ...

I'm 14 and I've been in love with a 17 year old I barely know for three years, even though it's caused me nothing but trouble

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I'm 14, and I'm completely, totally, insanely in-love with a 17 year old boy. Well, at least I think I am. I don't even know him, I've never spoken to him, and I've only ever heard him talk once. It was kind of love at first sight. I've been 'in...

I'm dating an older man who isn't really interested in sex and only does it because I still am, what should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I am 42, just divorced and met this man 18 years older than me. We only see each other 3 days a week but we have sex everytime we are together. This man said he just does it to please me. He has a low sex drive and sex is not important to him ...

How does an age gap affect a relationship??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - How does an age gap affect a relationship? Explain whats good and bad when you have a 20years gap boyfriend?...

I know it's silly but I have a crush on my teacher and it's affecting my grades, how can I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - I'm Sooooo stressed, and it's down to just ONE person! A Teacher... I've had an obsessive crush on him for nearly a year, and it's actually affecting my school work - I'm not a nerd or anything, but if i wanna get my dream job i'm gonna have to ...

Does he just want all the perks with none of the restrictions??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - I'm 18, and have been "dating" a 27 year old for almost a year. He works with teenagers, and therefore our relationship cannot be public, as he would risk losing his job and ruining his reputation. However, he also refuses to introduce me to his ...

He is 60 yrs of age, do you think this is too old to start a relationship with, as I do want children, etc?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - Hi, a much older man (27 years to be exact) has told me that he loves me and has since the very first time he met me (we know each other over a year). I know he currently has a partner and he has told me they are separating, he has also mention ...

We're friends but I want more. Should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

20 November 2007 (M) - A little long (sorry) For the past 5 years..........I've been debating this question: Should I tell a girl who is 6 years older than me that I should be the one she should be dating? Now as I said earlier, we've been friends for 5 almost 6 year...

I'm totally confused - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Hi, i am a bit messed up. I am married over a year now, my husband walk out after 7 months of marriage, i was devastated, left my job and move home, he was confused and wanted to be single again, anyhow, he asked me back and i went back as i still ...

Should I leave her, or give her the second chance she is begging for? She's cheated, but I have too, in the early stage of our relation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Hello, My relationship is complex, but most relationships are. I am very sexually experienced, my gf is (was) not (ratio of partners was something like 40-1). This has always been a sore point. My girlfriend is 15 years younger than me and we h...

Sexual remarks, flirtation and mind games from my teacher. I know it's wrong, but I'd go on anyway. How do I control myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

17 November 2007 (F) - hi im 14 and hav had a major crush on my science teacher for well over a year.at first i hated his guts -he looked at me consantly and said/did innapropriate things(winks;sexual remarks;touching), i always felt really uneasy.however one day during a ...

She was my babysitter.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

17 November 2007 (M) - My questions are regarding an older woman. She is eleven years older than me. Perhaps some background would be helpful. The woman we are talking about I have known for a very long time. She was first my babysitter and then she helped me with ...

I'm a teenager, I'm obsessed about sex and only like older males. Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

17 November 2007 (F) - I'm a 15-year old girl, and I have a problem. I'm completely obsessed with sex (sure, since I'm a teenager) and have decided that I'm absolutely ready to have sex now! The problem is, I am not at all attracted to boys my age (or even boys close to ...

I am very worried, why hasn't he called me back?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

17 November 2007 (F) - I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much ...

I'm torn - do I break up with him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

16 November 2007 (F) - Im 18 and my boyfriend (24) who i have been with for a year have hit a bump in our relationship. Clearly you can see there is an age gap between us, and that is part of the problem. He's wanting more out of our relationship, more of a commitment. ...

Is she serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

16 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I am 23 years old, i met a woman online, at first it was just fun and as the relation got deeper and longer i felt more and more for her, she is sweet and lovely, she got 4 kids, the youngest one is older than me by two years, i dream to meet ...

I'm divorcing my husband. Will I be able to love again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - Im divorcing my husband. We've been married for 22 years and have a daughter. Our marriage has up and down and I've been trying very hard to save it. It's so painful to make the decision to end it. At 45 I suddenly realised life is too short I ...

Do I really love him for who he is or just for who I want him to be? Was he using me all this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - hi everyone i'm 21f my problem is my bf is 49 years old! we've been together for 7 years now i love him so much i had sex with him when i was 15. and now i read that i'm attracted to him cuz he fills the space that my father left when he passed a...

Is it stupid to follow his way of life because I want to stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - I am 42 just divorced my husband. I lost all my confident and directions. All I do is stay in the house shut myself out from the outside world. Then I met this man. He is 17 years older than me. He gets me out of the house and helps me to think ...

Is there a reason he's keeping me a secret from his friends and family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

14 November 2007 (F) - the family of my boyfriend does not know about me!! my boyfriend is 36 years old and im 21, he is a trustworthy men, really honest... sometimes too much, some months ago something was happening, relative often he was telling me stories about hi...

Is this age gap important?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

13 November 2007 (F) - is it ok to have a relationship,when the boy is 17years old and the girl is 21years old?age gap?...

Can long distance relationships work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

13 November 2007 (M) - I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 plus long distance, can it work, is it wrong? Basically, I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 and i need to know is it wrong baring in mind that we're in it for dating until she's old enough but even so is it wrong beca...

I'm only attracted to OLDer men, whereas I'm 17. How do I stop this?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

13 November 2007 (F) - Okay... so I'm ONLY into older men... it really sucks for me. anytime i like a guy there is always a problem regarding his age, but the sad thing is that i cannot help it. i really try to like guys my age, but it doesn't work out. it really hurts ...

I have feeling for my aunt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

12 November 2007 (M) - well i have feeling for my aunt i know its not lust i love her and i know its wrong but we both kind of flirt with each other and i was wondering if it would be wrong to seduce her oh also she is almost 30 years older than me but i love her so much...

An odd first Relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

12 November 2007 (F) - Ok...... now this is the first time i have told anyone else besides my BBF about this. It started about 5 weeks ago when i met a guy at a caffe who my twin brother new. He is 46 but a really nice guy, he asked if my bro and i would like to co...

My boyfriend is 15 and I'm 12. his mum found out and went mad!!! I think I'm going to lose him what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

10 November 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend who i really really like and hes 15 and i'm only 12. He is my first real boyfriend and i met him at school. We go on the same school bus and that is how it started. We got to talking and then after a few days we kissed. The school ...

Is anyone out there any good with a Crystal Ball?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

9 November 2007 (F) - I feel genuine love for someone, and I mean genuine. What should I do? The age gap isn't huge (about 8 years). I'm good mates with this person and the last thing I wanna do is screw that up, but I wish I could just find the courage to tell them my ...

Is it wrong to date a younger guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I like this guy for long time. We have been friends for almost 4 years and i seem to have not lost interest in him. I have tried so hard to stop liking him because he is a year younger than me but it's really hard. I even dated other guys to try ...

She gets drunk and treats me like a king, but sobers up and treats me like a peasant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - People; I am a seriously and totally confused guy. Im a 29 year old guy, and i am totally and utterly in love with a woman 10 years older. I have no issue with the age difference at all. We do enjoy each others company and talk regulary and hav...

I'm 15 and he's 18, I've have spent time with him in a group but want more, am I wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - ok well im 15 and i recently started hanging out with this guy not alone but in group company i see him now almost every weekend and occasionly through the week i really like him the one problem is that he is 18. we chat on instant messaging and he ...

I'm in love with a 35 year old man I met at a party. I'm only 18.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - I met this guy at a party and i just noticed him because he was so cute. while I was sitting, he came to meet me and gave me his number. We've started communicating and spent some time together but the thing is he's 35 and I am 18. I look more ...

Am I doing the right thing???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - Help someone please, I have finished with my husband of 19 years and I really don't want him back its over for good.... My problem is that I have fallen head over heals with a man ten years younger than me, we meet on holiday and he is the best t...

I'm 17 in university and he's 14 in high school, should we be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

5 November 2007 (M) - hi, well i am angelina the problem is that i am 17 and he is 14 he is still at the high school and i am at the university so many people think that we are in love but our age difference is the problem and for other way i am best friend of ...

I met a married man 14 yrs ago. He is as good to me as always, but - still married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

5 November 2007 (F) - I am 55 female. I met a married man 14 years ago, he is now 44. I need out. I love him so much and he is as good to me as when we first met. I feel I am getting too old to make a new start and I don't think I can cope with not seeing him again. He ...

Should I lose my virginity to this older guy?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

4 November 2007 (F) - Heya.For about a year now ive been seeing this guy and we get on really well and both really like each other. The only problem is he's 28 and im only 16. The age dosen't matter to me that much its just a few of my friends know and are really teasing ...

All of a sudden I am into an old people's world, that my older partner acquainted me with. Should/how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6219 days ago

2 November 2007 (F) - I am in love with a man 18 years older than me. Im a 45 year old divorcee. All my family says he's too old for me that I will end up wheeling his wheelchair. We've been together for 9 months now. We get on well. Since we met we went to clubs ...

Should I leave or should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

2 November 2007 (F) - Im 45 a housewife just divorced my husband. I've met a man 18 years older than me. We've been seeing each other 4 a year now. We get on well. I've been trying to find job but no luck yet. He's got good income and still working but he never offer ...

Is a 5 year age difference a problem for boyfriend and girlfriend or is it just right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

2 November 2007 (F) - Is a 5 year age difference a problem for boyfriend and girlfriend or is it just right?...

I may be left behind, if I don't change the way I am.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

1 November 2007 (M) - im 21, and been single for a year. this time last year my girlfriend of 4 years split up with me. i was totally heart broken and it took me months and months to get over. anyway, now i am over that and want to meet new girls. but, because i ...