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anonymous
writes:I have a boyfriend who i really really like and hes 15 and i'm only 12. He is my first real boyfriend and i met him at school. We go on the same school bus and that is how it started. We got to talking and then after a few days we kissed. The school found out and said it was inappropriate and asked us not to sit next to each other on the bus, so we didn't. We saw each other out of school which was really nice and at break, in the library. One day he kissed me in the library and we got reported. The teacher, who had told us off before, said that if it happens again they will ring our mums. At the biginning of our relationship his mum read his inbox on his phone!!! i had sent him a message with a kiss and she went mad because she new i was 12 so he changed my name on his phone to Jenny and told her i was 15. So we didn't want the school to ring our mums so we blanked each other at school which broke my heart. the school rang our mums anyway and he is not alound to see me. We still are going out but we are seeing how it goes. I am really scared he is going to finish with me and i havn't stopped crying. i text him today just saying how are you but he hasn't answered. i love him and dont want to lose him. What can i do without seeming to desperate?
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reader, hello1 +, writes (11 November 2007):
 Why is everyone against you? simple really, it's damn wrong for a 15yr old to go out with an 12yr old. It's not normal and in a couple of years, your see that too. Stay away from this guy, it's very werid a boy his age is intrested in a 12 year old.
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reader, Jules22 +, writes (11 November 2007):
 hey. i am not going to tell you that you should try and forget him because i know that is realy hard. you say that you think you are goin to lose him but if he still wants to carry on seeing you he probably will. you cant change how he feels and i am sorry to say that if he finds an older girl that is into him he probably wont give you a second thought. i dont know this guy and how serious he is but he has his mates that will be talking and he certainly does not want to loose his cred. also, if he does try to end things then try to make it as easy as possible for him because he might find it quite hard. that way when you are older things might kick off again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): look,i totaly understand i am 15 and a girl and i went out with a 20yr old when people found out things went horribly wrong because of the age diffrence so i know what im talking about,i thought i loved him but then because of the age diffrence my mum phoned the police and tried to get him arrested if you really love him you wouldnt want him to get in trouble and on a normal 15yr olds mind is sex and you are to young for that and he would get in a lot of trouble so if you really love him you need to get on with your own life it will take time but you will get over him. i went the hard way and kept seein him,it messed his life up and now he hates me so the best thin gis to just be friends thats better than nothig x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): You are very young to be going through this serious adult stuff. Why cant you wait until you are a lot older. He is 15 and therefore i can understand his parents being concerned. If he has sex with you he will be arrested for having sex with an underage child. Sorry, but that is just what you are. He is 15, so once he is 16 is he going to wait possibley 4 years until you are 16? Sorry, but i dont think so. You are best to end this now, it isnt going anywhere, yet, and get on with growing up and your school work. Just try and put him behind you. You can still be friends if you both can handle that, but you cannot carry on like this. If other people are noticing then they will not leave you alone, and it will be for your own protection and safety. Dont be too despondent about all of this, you are young and have all of your life ahead of you. You may meet up again in the future or you could meet someone else, but that is life. Dont get too down about it. There are better days ahead. Enjoy your childhood and the adulthood will be fantastic when you get there, but dont rush into being an adult, life is tough! Sending you big hugs.
take care
xx
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reader, gedion  +, writes (10 November 2007):
what you have to do is just stay in love and tell him that U loved himand tell him also U'll never give up loving him.
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