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evelangel
writes:Ok...... now this is the first time i have told anyone else besides my BBF about this.It started about 5 weeks ago when i met a guy at a caffe who my twin brother new. He is 46 but a really nice guy, he asked if my bro and i would like to come over for drinks, i didnt hesitate i thought this would be cool. So we headed over and ended up staying the nite (seperate beds).Then the next weekend we went over again only this time i stayed up with him. He asked me in conversation had i kissed anyone and in honest truth i just said 'no' next thing i new he was leaning over and kissing me. It wasnt pationate on my end i was just looking up waiting for it to end. lolWe went over the following week and this time i stayed up again being more comfortable with him i let him fondle me. i dont regret it it was a good experiance.Same happend the next week and the next only for the following weeks i let him touch more and more and he touched me.While all this was happening my bro was in the other room and to this day still doesnt no.I think i am getting feelings for this guy but i am only 19 so it could be weird and i no he has no feelings for me which is fine cause i no this was never suppossed to be anythings.So now were in this (sex) relationship that i cant tell anyone about and its my first time you would think this would be my most exiting time.But for anyone out there who has the same prob. try not to hide it cause you will get caught. i havent yet but i no i will ..
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reader, delboysbunny  +, writes (25 November 2007):
i dont like the idea of his age but i agree with steve just b carefull and enjoy and learn
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reader, evelangel +, writes (23 November 2007):
evelangel is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi,
Thank you very much for all your answers. To clarify a few things.
1. He no's that this is not a relationship, we have spoken about it.
2. We are not having sex!
3. He is a friend who i trust and know for a fact he would not just dump me.
Although i would have agree that maybe this is not the right thing and yes i do have to get out and about and meet ppl my age. he has told me to do that and that if i get a bf then he will stop...
Thank you again for all your hepful comments ill take them all into consideration
Regards
Evelangel
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reader, Chemer +, writes (21 November 2007):
 I do not believe age should be a barrier as long as its not a child!!!
The only problem that I can see in this relationship is the fact that he is not interested. Its a bit of fun that you both enjoy. But you have not really experienced true love, emotions, sex etc with someone of your own age.
Also I doubt you will be dragging him down to the Disco or he will be keeping up with you in other ways.
When I was 16 I went with a Female who was 46. She taught me loads of things and then at the end of it dumped me when she met another boyfriend and told me not to speak of it. I was devastated, but now realise it was just a bit of fun to her. I was a stop gap until she found herself a boyfriend her own age.
You could treat this as fun and tell him that it will stop when you find someone your own age. Use him like he is using you to get a bit of experience. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with going with an older person. Just take precautions and remember this is not going to last. Its a bit of fun for and him. As long as you don't feel dirty or used all is good.
LOL I was told by a 28 year old I was too old at 37 so know how it feels lol. I am going out with a 27 year old now.
Hugs
Steve xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): sounds like you are having fun but the fact of the matter is that he is too old for you! it would be a different story if he was 21 or 22 or something. Well lets say you continue this sex realtionship, what else will you get out of it? Love? Happiness? Just think about it a lil more. He's a raisin fooling around with a grape. (no it's not an insult to you)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007): Hi there,
It seems like this is 1 of your first real relationships.
The trouble is, you are having it with a 46 year-old man.
To be honest, I personally think he is far too old for you, you should be out living your live, young an free. This man probably looking for commitment, and you cant give him that.
My advice would be to stop wasting your time with this man and move on. Find yourself a boyfriend your own age.
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