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writes:I am 55 female. I met a married man 14 years ago, he is now 44. I need out. I love him so much and he is as good to me as when we first met. I feel I am getting too old to make a new start and I don't think I can cope with not seeing him again. He is still married
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): 14years is a long time to be seeing someone to whom you are not a number one priority.certainly, you must be getting something you value from the relationumanship...good on you! but instead of placing limits on yourself, use that to get more. i mean you bagging a 44yr old when you are 55yrs should be an ego boost, and make you feel more confident in reaching out to meeting other people and not vice versa. you certainly are not too old to start over or clear out the cobwebs from your life...and that includes mr married! show him the door- but do that after meeting the potential replacement!
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reader, lainie  +, writes (8 November 2007):
If he is still married after 14 years of seeing you then he will definately not ever leave his wife, he is getting the best from both worlds, he is probably still as good to his wife too!! because he has the love of two good women he is dead cosy. Put an end to it, your better than that and deserve more from life. At 55 you can travel join clubs meet loads of new people and have a good time, it's up to you, don't hang on to a lost cause, keep healthy and free from stress and you can be enjoying life til 90 with "Soon" a new feller.
Best of luck xx
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reader, Rennie +, writes (5 November 2007):
Thank you so much for your reply. I know what the answers are going to be, but still we need for people to tell the truth so we can go on.
Thanks again, Rennie
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): I saw a married guy for 10 years. Big big waste of my life but it took someone who was available who was really decent and kind to make me realise - it shook me that I had been 'on ice' for this married man for so long. Why did I do that? Never felt good enough. Break free I promise when you meet someone who is truly free to be with you it is like a whole new world. Get out there and have some fun..... you are no way too old. Dump Mr Married.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 November 2007):
 Don't you think you've wasted enough time on this dead end? I mean it has taken you 14 years to realize you are going nowhere. End it today and give yourself a chance at some real happiness that belongs to you and you alone, not to mention regaining your honor and integrity. There is a guy out there for you, you just need to be ready when he comes into your life. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): You certainly are not too old to make a new start! I know people who have met someone else at the age of 60 and began a fantastic and fun filled life with a new partner. You have wasted too many of the best years of your life on this person now you must let go. Tell him it is over and get your own life back on track. It will be very hard at first but not impossible. Get out there with friends. Join a dance class, learn some new steps, have some fun, and quite a lot of blokes actually go along. You never know, you may meet someone there. Also get back the buzz. Have a change of hairstyle. Try a new hobby or even a sport, but please do not say you are too old.
take carexx
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