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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I have never cheated on my boyfriend of 4 years but he's got it into his head I have and it's driving me mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I have been going out with my partner for over 4 yrs now. But i am at the point now of deciding whether or not to end it. There is a considerable age gap between us and perhaps this plays its part in the problems. My partner does not trust me nor...

She lied about her age but her reason was valid...I think? What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I'v been dating a girl for almost 5 months, but recently she has told me her true age :( I initially met her in a night club (pub) hence didnt query her age when she told me she was 18. Plus she looked 18, and the staff of the club must ha...

My parents don't like my girlfriend and are starting to turn my head round to their way of thinking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 37. I'm into her (I'm not sure I love her though) but my parents and family isn't big time. They're also not thrilled about her having a 15 year old son. They keep telling me I'm being suckered in cause sh...

I told my mom my boyfriend is 12 years older than me, now she's going to tell my stepdad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - im 19 years old and have a bf whos older then me he is 31, ive told my mom as i thought i could tell her, but she keeps saying she is going to tell my step dad but i know he will leave if she does what should i do as i really like this guy and i ...

We both have problems with the age difference but we can't seem to stay away from each other.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid I am involoved with a 22 year old male, we 'gel' I am 45 He feels that it is morally wrong, while I think that at some point he will decide that I am to old for him.- we both have issues around our age, him in particular as he lives wi...

I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy? ...

My boyfriend is forcing me to have sex with him and it's scaring me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I am 19 year old and I have a current partner who's 36. I really like him although he's kinda pushy a little bit sexually. I told him I wasn't realy ready to have sex with him, that I could do oral and other stuff instead but yesterday he really scar...

My gf's past much-older lover used her! It bother me, knowing that. How do Iet this go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - After seeing each other for a week, I asked my girlfriend to tell me everything about her past, as did I. Turns out we were both molested as children, and felt out of place growing up. Then she told me about her sexual partners. Her first was 37, ...

I'm 25 and love a married man who's 52! I know it's wrong but down know what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I am 25 and I love a married man that is 52, I know this situation is aweful, but i love him so much, everytime i yell and fight with him saying its over and i cant do it anymore, within a few hours we are talking again, I know it is wrong and I ...

I find it rather disturbing to hear that my gf dated and had sex with her Dad's best friend (42) when she just 16! How should I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - Hi, you speak of age gaps btw 18 - 21 so forth, what about 16 and 42? My gf once dated her dad best mate (her dad doesnt know) he was like a guardian to his 4 daughters all of simular age, n he disided to sleep with her lots. I find this ...

I love him but fear I'm way too young for him. Isn't it better to let someone go if you know your not good for them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - hes 9 years loder than me and im just holding him back. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months nearly and wev had more than our share of problems. hes 25 and im nearly 17 and obviously thats been a problem for alot of people. but only recently ive ...

Will a 19 year age gap work? I'd love to know from others with age differences in their relationships.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - As you can tell from my nickname, there is a 19 year age gap between myself (25) and the guy I'm currently seeing (44). I have been reading the forum, and there are many people with similar 'issue' as me. It seems like there are 2 schools of ...

He's 7 years older than I am, should I say yes if he asks me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - I'm a college sophomore and at work I just met a grad school freshman who I suspect may ask me out, however I skipped two grades and he spent three years abroad...so it's a seven or eight year age difference. He doesn't realize I'm young for my ...

He treats me like a queen, is rich and successful, single, never been married and is a nice guy... but I have some concerns!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - Hi I'm sort of dating a 44 yr old man (I'm 25). He's liked me for a year now and when I broke up with my ex, he took the chance to tell me that he likes me. Since then, we've been casually dating. He treats me like a queen, is rich and success...

Anyone else in a large age gap?? I'd love to know!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) - Ive been in an age gap relationship for 3 years, me and my partner got married last year and life couldn't be better. Im 20 and he is 59 so a 39 year age gap. Sometimes I feel like we are the only people in the world with a big age gap but I ...

Is a 15 year old girl dating a 22 year old different from a 18 year old girl dating a 26 year old? Any views?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) - Hello, I'm 19 years old and dating a 27 year old guy. We've been dating for a year, ever since I was 18 and he was 26. And everything's fine, no problems here. Recently though, my cousin came and told me that she's dating a 22 year old - and s...

I can't be with him because of the age difference. So how do I forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - I really,really like this guy but he's 9 years older than me,(me being 16, him 25) i know that i cant be with him because of the age difference, i see him everyday and its making it really hard!....... Has anyone got any ideas on how i can not th...

I've just realised my BF is only 16 years younger than my parents! How do I tell them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - Hiya I'm 20 from Reading and the man I'm dating is 27 from London. It's never bothered me before until I realized something.... He's only 16 years younger than my parents! My Mum is 43 and my dad is 45. I'm afraid to tell them about my boy...

He seems really decent and for once just doesn't want to jump into bed... but is he too old for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - hi. im a 17 year old girl that about 5 months ago ended a long relationship with a boy for about two years. he just wasnt right for me i didnt have that special feeling you know it wasnt the same. well there is this guy i met recently..i have never ...

His Mother found out my age and told her son to dump me! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

15 May 2007 (F) - hi, ive got a big problem with my bf. Me and my bf have 3 years difference (i am 13 he is 16) we have already talked about sex and made sure we have eachothers trust neither of us are going to take advantage. But his mum has found out my age and h...

17 and in love with a 12 year old boy... is it wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) - i'm a 17 year old girl and i think i'm in love with a 12 year old boy. we're friends and we hang out almost everyday. he's friends with my brother who is 13 and that's how i met him. most of my friends are younger then me(like 12 and older) because ...

Are any ladies or men who can give me some advice on what males of 23 think, want in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) - Hey Hey, I'm seeing this 23 year old....and there's a 7 year difference between us. Like... I wanna get inside his head...know or understand what he's thinking. I wanna know what 23 yr old males think and what they want. I wanna know conversa...

I have fallen in love with this man but he is married and has a kid.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) - hi I have fallen in love with this man but he is married and has a kid. I don't know what to do i am 18 and he is 41. i really want to be with him what shall i do....

I think I love this woman but I'm not sure if she likes me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6432 days ago

13 May 2007 (M) - Im 17 shes 24 I think I love this woman but I'm not sure if she likes me. Its hard to tell since shes flirty. We make Eye contact, she smiles at me. She's real interested in my goals in life too. We have lots in common both real big music fa...

He's younger than me and my friends say I shouldn't date a schoolboy! Should I listen to them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - Hi There. I'm in urgent need of help. Im 21 and I'm seeing a 16 year old. He acts much older and is such a nice guy. I really love him and want this to last. We made love and it felt amazing. I though I might be pregnant and he told me he'd stan...

I'm 14 and going out with a 22-year old. He thinks I'm 16, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - hiya im 14 but im going out with a 22 year old and he thinks im 16 what can i do and i reali like him hes diffrent i no everyone says it but ? help please...

He tells me he wants me and stuff but does he or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - well im 15 and hes 30 i really like him i feel like im in love with him and i dont know what to do he tells me he wants me and stuff but i feel used just for sex and im really unsure what to do... because i like him and dont no what to do, he has ...

Is this relationship worth wasting any more of my time on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - Hi im a 23 year old female. I have been with my bf for 4 years now and we have a 5 month old baby. im really unhappy in this relationship and have been for some time.he is 11 years older than me and has a long past some of the more explicit de...

I'm in love with my daughter's friend.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - I know this may seem wrong, but I'm in love with my daughters friend. I divorced my daughter (Ashley)'s mother about 2 years ago and I guess I've been looking for someone to be with. But there's more than one problem with that. First, She's 17. ...

Does my much younger colleague fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6435 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I think I am falling for a younger co-worker. He works in a different dept so we do not have to interact much but we IM eachother everyday all day long. This has been going on now for over a year. He usually initiates it. He is 25 and I am 42. I ...

I think the age difference of 18 yrs is taking its toll on us, but what if I dont find someone to love me like he does!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - I've been with by boyfiend for 2 years. We have an 18 year age gap, I'm almost 22. Recently I've been wondering whether I'm really up to this because of the age. He acts silly all the time so it's like going out with a child sometimes but he's ...

I have a crush on this guy but he is 8+ years older than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between ...

He saw another woman. Was it innocent as he says?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. He is a lot older than me, I'm 21 and he is nearly 40. In all my relationships (which isn't many) I've always had a big problem with trust and worrying about my boyfriend and them liking othe...

I lied to her and now she's upset. Is there no way I can make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - hi. im a 25 year old guy n ive been with my 16 yr old gf for nearly 4 months. We have had our fair share of problems and right now everything is falling appart. On friday i lied about a girl that she knew i had feelings for. I told her that we...

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

This question has 75 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

10 May 2007 (M) - I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

I'm 18 and I'm thinking about asking 15-year old girl out, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

10 May 2007 (M) - hi i am 18 and started talking to this girl who is 15 and we been talking for a while and that lot and i am starting to find her attractive and was thinking of asking her out i am not out for sex or anything for 1 i am a virgin anyway and plus i ...

I'm 15, he is 19 and I think I'm pregnant - can he go to jail?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for 2 1/2 years. My parents do approve of us dating, but I think I'm pregnant. Can my boyfriend go to jail?...

My bf wants to wait until I'm 18, but I want sex now!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - hi there im a 17 year old female and i have a boyfriend who is 32 years old we love each other very much and my parents know about our relationship and adore him. we have been seeing each other for 6 months the only problem is i really want to have ...

I'm 25-she's 18 and I like her! Am I creepy for wanting to date someone much younger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

5 May 2007 (M) - Hello My name is Trent and I'm 25 years old. I have a good friend named Emily who is 18 years old, and this problem is about her. We met two years ago when I was 23 and she was 16. We were both working at the same pizza place and became frie...

We have an age difference of 3 years and it bothers him! What is your view?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

5 May 2007 (F) - Okay, I am 14..going to be 15 in oct. and i like this guy and he is 17 to be 18 in july..i like him he likes me we went out on a date, my parents really like him, but the other day he said he is bothered by the age difference, its only a little over ...

What do I do about being in love with an older boy??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

5 May 2007 (F) - I'm in love with a 19 year old and im 14. I've told my mam and she didnt seem to botherd, me and him arent going out. I think he knows hes too old for me and he doesnt know what to do i love him so much. I dont think age should matter if your in ...

I'm starting to resent my husband... is our 13 year age gap to blame?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F) - There is a 13 year age gap between my husband and I and when we married first it was ok. We now have 2 young children 4 and 7 and he is 50 - I am 36. The age gap is more noticable now and he doesnt really get involved in the upbringing of the ...

I'm 22 but attract older guys... how can I attract guys more my own age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

4 May 2007 (F) - hi guys.. i've got a problem because im 22 and single but i always seem to attract guys who are way older than me. like an example of this was on the weekend i went to a firends wedding party and there were these two guys who were chattin me up, but ...

I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do, 1st he said i like u will u meet me and because ive liked him for ages i meet him, and got in his car because i ...

He really likes this girl who is the same age as him, now I feel he'll like her more as I'm 3 years younger.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

2 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, The boy I like is nearly 3 years older than me (I'm 15, he's 18 in August). We've been friends for about a year and flirt loads. I was almost certain he liked me back and was getting close to telling him, when a few days ago he told me ...

I'm still in college and my Bf who is 10 yrs older is concerned hes holding me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I wrote a question the other day, but it ended up being interpreted wrong, so I will try to rephrase it. I have been dating the same guy for 2 years now, and we understand eachother and connect on so many levels. The problem we're having right no...