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writes:hi i am 18 and started talking to this girl who is 15 and we been talking for a while and that lot and i am starting to find her attractive and was thinking of asking her out i am not out for sex or anything for 1 i am a virgin anyway and plus i am not like most guys i am diff lol but what do u think Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2007): im glad your not in it for sexual reasons, but just know that you two are at two very different mind sets, your becoming an adult and starting to worry about adult things and she is very much a teenager and has alot to learn. Age is not a problem to me, i was 15 and my boyfriend was 18 when we started dating, the only issue for us is that sometimes we are not always on the same level which got us into arguements.
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reader, love-him +, writes (10 May 2007):
 wel wen i first started goin out with my boyfriend - of ten months - i was 15 and he was 19 and 20 in just a months time. he was a virgin when i met him which people were shoocked but happy n proud ov him. it wouldnt matter if u werent a virgin, wat matters is how u feel about this girl. dont listen to anyone else cos its got nothin to do with them, just keep in mind ow u feel about this grl n make sure, sex isnt wat she thinks u want becase that may put her off. wen i met my boyfriend i wasnt a virgin, and we did end up having sex before i was 16 and yes that could get you into trouble. but if u actualy both consent, and are under no influences of alcohol, then it would be ok. hope i helped, i know i went a bit of the subject but it was just to give u a clue of other stuf wich mite be troubling you x
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (10 May 2007):
 I think as long as you dont have sex until she is 16 you are perfectly fine. People will question your motives and her parents may not like it so be wary. But otherwise your fine
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (10 May 2007):
 huni go for it! im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 so dnt worry. but if it is just for sex then you reli gotta wait till shes 16 cos you can really get yourself in trouble. The only problem you might come into is that other people sumtimes see age n not people. if you like her and she likes you then go for it huni.
gud luck xxx
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reader, aunty jane +, writes (10 May 2007):
 talk to this girl first and see if you can find her point of view on going out with older boys?
i am glad that you dont just want her for sex as she is underage...
im sure she would be really flattered that you asked her out,but if shes not ready,make sure you tell her tht you will still be friends... this will reasure her you dont just want her for one thing
good luck
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