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writes:well im 15 and hes 30 i really like him i feel like im in love with him and i dont know what to do he tells me he wants me and stuff but i feel used just for sex and im really unsure what to do... because i like him and dont no what to do, he has made me so ill iv been throwing up all week because i cant stand the thought of not being with him please help ! x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): Hey wow. Im 17 but ill be 18 in a few days and i have ur same problem. Im in love with a 30 year old also. I have know idea if he really likes me or if he is useing me but i think i should stick wit guys my own age an i hope u do the same. But i still care about him so i do understand u
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (12 May 2007):
 hey thereits possible that he is just using you for the sex. However who knows what older men like that think maybe he does want you but he should be prepared to wait until you are older and ready and legal!!! He will get into loads of trouble if he does anything with you because you are still a minor. Hun ive been in this situation before my advice to you is you ask him how he really feels about you and if you arent satisfied with his answer leave him. However im not telling you what to do because thats your preogative. I just hope you do whats best for yourself. good luck
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reader, love-him +, writes (12 May 2007):
 im not gona say what all the other people have said, but i am going to say, i think you should think very carefully about the decision of staying with this man. he is a lot older than you and he could get into a lot of trouble. i know many people have different ages between them, for example my grandad is 40 years older than his girlfriend. but they are well over 15, you are still illegal chick n i think maybe stay away from him for a couple of months and maybe have a look at someone else, not preferably the same age because i understand people like older people. but make sure if he ever tries to do anything you are, unsure of, make sure he doesnt hurt you. hope i helped x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2007): I say stay away from this man, you are very young and he is an adult, and he should know better. There are plenty of boys out there your own age, and if he ever tries to touch you "the wrong way" call the police he can go to jail becuase its against the law. When i was 15 i had crushes on older men too, but they went away as i got older and i found out what true love felt like when i fell inlove with a boy my own age. Tell your mom or dad emediatly how you been feeling about him ecspecaily!!!!
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reader, maryann61181  +, writes (12 May 2007):
 He's a pedifile. Stay away from him, tell your parents and get a restraining order!!!! Are you sure you aren't pregnant? Go buy a test and go see a doctor. I hope you have used condoms, this guy is a dirtbag. Not only is a 15 year gap too much, but you a child still and he is a grown man! I cannot believe that someone hasn't done something about this. This man belongs in jail and he will go if this continues.
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (12 May 2007):
 how long have u known him?
have you told your family about him and how old he is? if so what have they said about it?
your half his age, do you think its wise to be in a relationship with him?
i wont tell you what to do, only say that it would be better for you to date someone closer to your age.
it is possable that he maybe usin you for sex but cant say for sure.
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