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He seems really decent and for once just doesn't want to jump into bed... but is he too old for me?

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Question - (17 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi. im a 17 year old girl that about 5 months ago ended a long relationship with a boy for about two years. he just wasnt right for me i didnt have that special feeling you know it wasnt the same. well there is this guy i met recently..i have never felt this way before i now know what butterlies feel like. and for once a guy dosent wanna have sex with me the first time they see me. i like him alot. but he is 23 gonna be 24 in a couple months. is he too old for me??

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A female reader, floraltemptaions Canada +, writes (17 May 2007):

It really depends on the couple. You will have to spend some time with this guy to see if he really is right for you, or if he is too old for you maturity wise.... but beware... you may get your heart broken also. When I was just a little older then you I dated a guy for 8 months, and when I decided to go back to school (in September) he ditched me, and was married by January. I realized afterwards that he had been cheating on his fiancee with me... I was young, cute and a nice piece of ass. Men like to feel like they can get any young thing into bed.

But, there are some nice ones out there too. Soon after that I met my now fiancee, and we have a big age difference too. I'm 24, he's 35, but it works for us. But, you will still get those people who raise their eyebrows when you tell them the age difference.... you just have to do what feels right for you! Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007):

awww huni go 4 it! im 16 n me bf is 25 so i understand the age gap thing!

all you gotta be aware of is that not every1 will be cool with it n if there not will probly let you knw how they feel' take care huni n go 4 it

a guy hus older but treats u rite is better than a jerk your own age hu treats u rong!!

xxxx

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