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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi There.I'm in urgent need of help. Im 21 and I'm seeing a 16 year old.He acts much older and is such a nice guy. I really love him and want this to last. We made love and it felt amazing. I though I might be pregnant and he told me he'd stand by me no matter what, but it was just a scare. That's how amazing he is.When it comes to sex, he isn't scared. He tells me I make him feel safe and secure. He makes me feel that way too. All my friends keep telling me I shouldn't be dating a schoolboy, even though they think he's really hot!Who should I listen to, my friends or my heart?x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): Hi i think you should go out with this guy although he is young and maybe not mature as you id say go for it, and if it doesnt work out at least you have tried x
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reader, candy00s +, writes (27 May 2007):
if the genders were revesered then no one would be saying a thing about it! Dont worry about what your friends are thinking or saying maybe if they got to know him and see how mature he is for his age they might change their opinions.
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reader, penta +, writes (14 May 2007):
how would you answer this question if the genders were reversed? Something to think about.
In the mean time, invite him to be around your friends. If they get to know him, maybe they will understand.
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reader, I Waited For The One +, writes (14 May 2007):
why listen 2 ya mates half of them will give u bad advice
this is y i hate when girls get 2gether u slag of us guys of and give us bad names not all girls but i think its 65% of girls do this
ya mates r wrong y sould it matter if ya dateing a 16 year old lad there not the one who as 2 love him. just you no 1 else has 2 like him. just you
so what im trying 2 say is if u love him or like him stay with him dnt listen 2 ya mates i bet half of them r jealous and if ya dumped him would date him in seconds thats how it normally works
my advice stop listening 2 ya mates and listen 2 heart. and u wanna know something ya heart will keep ya happy ya mates will keep ya unhappy so in my eyes which 1 r u gonna listen 2?
make the right move and i hope this helps
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