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My bf wants to wait until I'm 18, but I want sex now!

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Question - (7 May 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi there im a 17 year old female and i have a boyfriend who is 32 years old we love each other very much and my parents know about our relationship and adore him. we have been seeing each other for 6 months the only problem is i really want to have sex with him but he says its best to wait till im 18 i am not a virgin and i know i am ready to take that step. what i want to know is, is it ok legally to have sex with him? i am in the uk.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007):

yes it is ok as you are over 16 buut u need to make sure your both ready to take the next step ime 17 and im with a 33 year old and we waited til i was 16 to have sex but maybe your boyfriend just wants to wait to make sure you are sure you want to and u wont regret it later on maybe you should speak to your boyfriend and tel em you are ready and want it to happen

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007):

no wonder he wants to wait until your 18 your still young what are you doing with a 32 yr old

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A female reader, Straight Up United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2007):

Straight Up agony auntin depends where you are in the uk but you should be happy that he wants to wait and remember when you wait the sex is much better goodluck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007):

he sounds like a great guy and he really cares for you i think you should listen to him

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (7 May 2007):

cd206 agony auntYes its legally okay but he probably just wants to feel like you're a fully consenting adult when you have sex. You're not termed an adult until you're 18 in the UK so in my opinion thats what he's worried about. Think about it a different way- if you wait your birthday sex is going to be explosive!

CD

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A female reader, Auntie Amber :) United Kingdom +, writes (7 May 2007):

Auntie Amber :) agony auntwell....before i read on i wud like 2 comment on the age difference! although many peeple may have spoken to you about your boyfriend being 15 years older than you i just want to try and understand! ......... yes it is legal 2 have sex with him because you ar both over the age of 16! erm...ur boyfriend sounds like he is coming from the right point of view! he maybe just wants 2 make sure u are ready concidering the age gap!!......w.b sooon xxxx

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