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writes:Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between us.The other day i went in the shop and he was in there with a few of his friends one of them asked me if he's asked me out, i misheard and thought he said did you ask him out, so jokingly i said yes, then realised what he actually said and said i was joking then he looked at me and smiled.After this one of his friends came and was talking to me asking fairly personal questions. I dont know wether to tell him how im feeling or not, because if he didnt feel the same way it would then make it really akward to see him everyday.Please help xx
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reader, jtaunton5410  +, writes (10 May 2007):
 Ok I went out with guy who was 6 years older than me and it was ok, because it was nice to have a mature man around but in the end I still wanted to act like a little kid sometimes and he would think I was immature. Older men seem to have a big opinion on their younger girls. I'll tell ya what, if you get those little butterflies in your tummy when you think about him or when you two are talking, odds are he is feeling the same thing. So ahead and tell him how you feel because he may be keeping his feelings from you because he isnt sure if you feel the same way. Good luck
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reader, AskEve +, writes (10 May 2007):
 Don't let his age put you off. You seem to have a mature enough head on your shoulders, just be confident, assertive and ask him if he fancies hanging out one weekend, see what he says. It sounds to me as if he's been asking his friends to find out more about you so I don't think he'll turn you down and if he does... just say "I guess it was a stupid idea" then change the subject. Thing is you won't know unless you try!
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (10 May 2007):
Okay, seems like you haven't heard the advice you want to hear, so you've reposted this question a half dozen times.Either change sports clubs, or ask your parents for advice.
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