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writes:I wrote in yesterday about having an affair with my flat mate he's 28 I'm 44 he came to see me yesterday to use my toilet he came out the bathroom belting up his trousers I couldt help but look he then said why was I looking at him we then was play fighting I had messaged him the night before which he did not reply he put his arm around me while he read my messages he knows I've got strong feelings for him he then said "what have I done to you" for me to feel the way I do about him he then said "I quite fancy you" I'm mixed up an confused as he said I'm one of his closest friends an that he dosnt want to mess with my feelings as its not fair
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 September 2014):
I agree with the post below. I think he's indicating that you are a friend with benefit, but not anything more at this stage.
Have you thought about sitting down with him and asking what he wants, or where you think is going? At the very least, it's worth having a talk about this so you know where you stand.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 September 2014):
 What do you want to know?
if you are asking if a 28 yr old man could really like a 44 yr old woman the answer is yes.
if you are asking if he feels as strongly as you do, well based on his implications that you are a FRIEND and he does not want to "mess with your feelings" I think he's making it clear he's more than happy to be friends with benefits but nothing more.
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