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How does one deal with a one-sided relationship where there is one rule for her and a different rule for me?

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Question - (1 September 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2014)
A age 51-59, * writes:

How should I deal with my girlfriend who states she can say whatever she feels like, whenever she feels like saying it, and however she feels likes?

Then if I don't like it I can stop talking to her.

Yet if I try same thing she gets mad and says I am trying to start an argument.

Even when I'm trying to express how I may feeling.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (1 September 2014):

Honeypie agony auntHow do you deal with it?

You end the relationship. You walk away. There is nothing to build on and she won't change. In fact she is expecting you to just suck it up, shut up, and do as you are told.

Doesn't exactly sound like a healthy relationship.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (1 September 2014):

Aunty BimBim agony auntI started out with a rather lengthy reply, but then I realised this woman is probably not going to change, and you will need to decide if you are okay with this, or if you need to leave her, and find a relationship that suit you better.

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A male reader, Forge United States +, writes (1 September 2014):

Forge agony auntYou gotta leave her. That's very rude and controlling of her. Not to mention hypocritical. End your relationship with her, it isn't worth it. There's plenty of fish in the sea (cliche... yes.)

-Forge

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2014):

It wont get better. The way you deal with this is to move on.

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