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writes:I really need help - for the last four years I have been on and off with a guy whom I am in love with. I feel that it is going nowhere however due to many reasons (lies/trust issues Etc) hence why we have been on and off. I really want to move on but I cannot stop loving him - and it is so frustrating!! I cannot stop thinking about him.... What on earth do I do??! Will I ever be able to get him out of my mind??
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth  +, writes (2 January 2014):
 Yes, you will eventually get over him. We have all been in your position, trust me. It will be painful, heart-breaking, you'll wet your pillow for nights...and in the end, time has a way of mending things. All you can do is wait for time to work its magic. Meanwhile, don't call him, block him on Facebook, throw away his pictures or anything else that reminds you of him and persuade yourself to begin anew. Not easy, I know. But there doesn't seem to be any other way. I hope you heal quickly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2014): After just getting dumped by my soulmate for similar issues I would say work it out! You should NEVER give up on true love. It is so extremely RARE! Love is abused and tossed around bc people just join an online dating site for the next "love".
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