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writes:hi everyoneI've never been on hear before so using it as a friend told me to so kind of now how it works.. anywayive been with this guy for around 4 yrs meet him on a dating website he moved in with me and my lg in June and its been great but my real problem is hes moved now to sumwhere where there is work his family also live there and is staying with a friend, anyway this guy come down for xmas eve and left xmas day as had work the next day, while he was there I noticed he was texting a girl so I asked who she was he said if he didn't want to b with me he wouldn't have come down xmas if he didn't.Anyway when he left I couldn't stop thinking about it so as I know his mate and her name I went onto fb and found her which said in a recent relationship, I also managed to find a new fb page for himself saying in a relationship(im not on his old fb), anyway since then I have dropped little hints saying if he doesn't want to b with me then he needs to say, it takes him ages to reply to me sumtimes which the fact then I know hes with her its always in my mind but I really cant say anything to him as hes been in my life for past couple of yrs. I even asked the other day if he missed me and his reply was ffs yes..im so confused I no hes having his cake and eating it but y cant he tell me he doesn't like me anymore, my friend has said he likes me more but where he's working away he thinks can get away with it, and I would never find out...., if he gets a permanent job there he even mentioned us moving there with him.the thing is this girl is friends with all his mates and bf with his sister in law. the only thing I feel like doing is telling her on fb that hes with me but then also thinking she knows that and is happy to do that. any advice plz many thanks in advance sally
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 January 2014):
 First Get the heck away from FB it'll eat you alive with stress and it's just a time bandit. I see people so into fb as you call it that they won't go pee unless they tell someone about it first and get a group to go with. It is just insane. I don't have a clue what lg is but I suspect it's just as stupid. My advice is go to a pub get wasted and talk to some real people for a change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2014): "I no hes having his cake and eating it but y cant he tell me he doesn't like me anymore"Because if he did then he'd probably feel some sort of moral obligation to stop having sex with you and then he wouldn't be able to have his cake and eat it."my friend has said he likes me more but where he's working away he thinks can get away with it, and I would never find out...."As things stand, you have found out yet and he's still getting away with it so it's a win-win for him. If you're dumb enough to wait for him to come to you and tell you that he's banging another chick on the side, then he's perfectly happy to continue sleeping with both of you for as long as you're willing to let him play you for a fool."the only thing I feel like doing is telling her on fb that hes with me"You may have a hard time convincing her that he's with you if he's telling her in bed that he's with her. "any advice plz"Perhaps you could be shocked and outraged that a lying, cheating scumbag is treating you with such abject contempt and dump him. Seriously, how can you just passively stand by and let this dirtball walk all over you? Do you not have one iota of self-respect, pride or dignity?
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