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writes:There is this guy at work I have a crush on. Thing is, idk if he is gay. We are very good friends but I have gotten to a point to when I am around him. I flirt. I tell him I like him, that he is cute and even wanna have sex with him but he dont say anything. He smiles sometimes. He just ignores me and sometimes agree. Sometimes he flirt back but thats only when we are alone. I think he takes me flirting as a joke, that im playing but I'm really being honest with him. I pick with him all the time. Even feel on him. We are best buds with each other. We always speak all the time at work sometimes he makes gay comments with me and sometimes he don't. Which I why I wonder. I'm scared to just tell him because I don't wanna make our Job awkward. A straight guy wouldn't let you flirt nor touch him without saying nothing but he say nothing. I'm not sure If he is in the closet because he makes no effort to talk to me. We have each others number. He doesn't try to make a move even though I'm clearly showing I like him. I recently did some drinking over the weekend and was kinda drunk and i sent him a sexual text by accident. Since I was drunk my friend got my phone and told him it was a accident. I thought It would be so awkward when I saw him. I was scared. But he didn't say anything. He just walked up to me laughing sayjnn you gay but In a joking way. Lol he was cool with. It was like a normal day. He confuses me. Could he be straight? Could he be scared? Could he be just not interested in me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2014): I'm guessing he's either straight and non-homophobic or he's just not interested. If it's either one of them, it doesn't matter because he's unavailable. Did you think to Facebook him or look his name or e-mail up to see if he's on any dating sites? That may help. Maybe invite a couple co workers out to a local gay bar or gay-friendly event and include him and see how he reacts when he's there if he shows up. But really? He's a co worker. Even if he's gay and interested that could get sticky. It really sounds like he's fine with where things are and doesn't want it to change.
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