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writes:So I have this guy friend that I am very close to and recently we were joking around and I unintentionally put him in the friendzone. At the time he had a girlfriend so it was totally no big deal and we would joke about it all the time, but recently they broke up. We continued to joke about the friendzone thing by calling each other best friend and making it blatantly known that we would be best friends forever but nothing more. But just a few weeks ago he started acting weird and uncharacteristicly shy over text and now he has stopped texting me all together. I don't know if maybe he liked me and I made him uncomfortable by continuing the joke or if he may be upset about his break up. (I don't beleive he is because his actual best friend told me he wasn't) Anyway I'm not sure what to do I really miss him and I'm starting to think there could be more to us. I just need general advice about what to do regarding the whole situation. All adive would be greatly appreciated especially a male's point of view. Thanks xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@olderrhandirt the situation is not a "facebook" situation it as peculiar as it sunds is reality I recently moved to a different state so i can only see my friends maybe twice a month so this is my reality. There are real feelings involved and I do try to do everything honestly and truly and go by what I think is best in every situation. So thank you for attempting to give me advide however it is no appropriate for the situation or relative to the actualy problem. Feel free to leave some other adicve based on what i have writen about here and periously.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 August 2014):
 Any young person tat can work e term faux pas into this kimnd of convoluted situation gets an A-Plus plus from me howevethe whole friendzone and BFF blabbe just eased it. Looks like and sounds like some more Facebook baloney to me which tends to place emphisis on silly stuff nd elude real feelings,ergo GET OFF of Facebook and learn to deal with folks in reality. Good Luck
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