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writes:I leave for college tomorrow and I need help on what to do with my relationship. We love each other, a hell of a lot. But we're going to different colleges, he's going to college in the city and I'm going 3 hours away...my thing is I want to be with him..but in the past he has been caught talking to other females in the process of cheating which caused us to break up for a couple of months. During that break up period he had sex with 4 females. If we break up for college I'm scared that he will do what he did while we broke up times 100. And if he does that I will NOT take him back, I'm not for him telling me all this sweet stuff and then going out and having sex with girls and expects me to stay by his side. Should I stay with him for college? Should I break up with him? I'm really confused but I do know I love him and I don't want to see him with anyone else but me.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 August 2014):
 niethe one of us believed anything would ever keep us fom reuniting one day after college we'just call and write every day and that would tide us over. Within a week, we both sent each other a tearstained letter explaining how we needed to part ways because we had each found a new evelasting love. Break up now while its easy( a letter in the mail is a kill shot to the heart.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 August 2014):
 I would break up. When you have that break up before it was for him to think about whether he could devote to you. He chose to use this free time to have sex with other people. Not one, not a drunken mistake, but 4. He has not worked to earn your trust so he needs to be let go. Set him free and also you too.
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reader, srp_x  +, writes (12 August 2014):
 My opinion you should leave him go to college and have a laugh, you will meet so many more people and have your own life without him that you wont even care what he's getting up to! If he did that to you 4 times when you was only on a break then no offence but it doesn't sound like he cares that much and its hard to trust someone again and it doesn't sound like you do and you cannot have a proper relationship without trust else things will be constantly playing on your mind. You've had your time together and now your both going different colleges. Live your life and enjoy meeting new people! You wont care what he's doing you'll be happy without him, things take time but you will appreciate it all in the end. I hope things work out for you.
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