Did I leave it to long? Is she not interested anymore?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so I met a girl right before Christmas. We got on pretty well and by the end of the evening we were kissing. We were both with groups of friends so we exchanged numbers and parted ways. Next day I texted her telling her how nice it was to meet her and how I wanted to see her again etc. She said the same, but due to Christmas/family and so on, we didn't specify any time/place we would meet. I left it another day, then text her on Christmas day, just general chat to let her know I was still thinking of her, which I was. Then on boxing day I text her to ask if we could meet and she seemed kinda disinterested, but said she would be out in the town where I live (she lives quite far away) on Saturday. it sounded as if she would be with friends, whereas I just wanted a proper date, just the two of us. I told her I might be able to make Saturday. point is, she sounded a little off with me. did I leave it too long? is she still interested?

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