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51-59,
*itten1967
writes:I am so broken hearted!My boyfriend asked me to marry him last night and I was so excitedBut tonight wanted to go look at rings and he don't want to buy me one cause it will cut into his beer money and he says I just asked you to marry me but I don't want to for four or five years maybe longerPlease somebody give me some advice
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reader, Kitten1967 +, writes (24 December 2013):
Kitten1967 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank yall
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 December 2013):
 "Oh, dear, I'm so sorry that this isn't going to work out for us. Hope you enjoy the beer. Good bye!"
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reader, M Proops  +, writes (24 December 2013):
This relationship is not for you i'm afraid if his beer is more important.It'll be worse after you are married i'm sure.Leave him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 December 2013):
 Sorry any engagement that is over 2 years or does not have a date for the wedding is not a true engagement IMO.
he asked you to keep you on the hook.
no ring?
won't dip into his BEER MONEY?
no date?
and 4 or 5 years in the future.. honey at your age you could be dead by then... he's just giving you words you want to hear so you won't leave his non-committal ass.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (23 December 2013):
 In four or five years, or longer? That's about as non committal as they come.
And he won't dip into his beer fund to spring for a ring?
My advice is leave him to drown in his beer. Please don't waste another day, another week or year with this guy. He's a big, fat nothing.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 December 2013):
 Tell him you are not prepared to wait four or five years or maybe longer, and rather than impinge on his beer money, or drinking time, you will leave him to it!
He is stringing you a line, don't fall for it. Leave his sorry sad self and go get yourself a life somewhere else.
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