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writes: Hi, im 16 and I have a huge problem thats making me depressed.The problem is my course tutor in college.I really like him! But I know nothing would ever come of it. Recently thouhg I have cuaght him looking over at me when he thinks im not looking, my friend has noticed this to! Then a week back, he stood next to me when I was sitting on the floor and dropped something so instead of bending down when he was facing the other way, he had to turn around so his bum was facing me!Now I know people go on about age gaps but he is only im his late 20's, and I know he would have his job to think about! And I have a low self image as it is!So can somebody please help me!Im Desperate!
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reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):
You already know nothing can come of this due to him being your tutor, I don't feel age differences are a problem but you are only 16, I don't mean to sound patronizing but there are plenty of boys your own age and this is just a crush you have for your tutor and doing anything about this will only cause loads of problems for you both.
Friends have a way of over dramatizing an issue and I feel that maybe their encouragement regarding this is them telling you what they feel you want to hear and looking more into something that isn't exactly what it seems.
Good luck :o)
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