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writes: hi i am 15 years old nd in my last year of secondary school. I have never done any thing sexsually(never been kissed), never had a bf and im quite shy. here is where you guys come in, i realli fancy a boy who is in my year but i dont know how to approch him. can you giveme any tips because i am clueless when it comes to boys and relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): Right first things first, be yourself. Don't try and imitate anything you might think he'll like because he will soon find out what your really like and think you have low self esteem or something. You don't need to tell any jokes or n e thing to get a laugh if you be yourself, it will cover everything, including hopefully showing your true feelings for him.
If you don't know him well, i think one thing u could do is talk to someone he hangs round with, then u could get more chance to talk to him. Also, don't go straight in for the bomb , start giving him a few warm gestures like smiles and stuff beforehand because the first step here is to establish a friendship:)
Ok, the actual aproaching, this is my WEAK POINT;) but i'll give it my best shot! Maybe you could ask him something like "what lesson you got next?" or "Hey, don't suppose you've got the time have you?" Be confident, cool and contained. Don't go too ott or he might think you're weird or something lol. Or don't look too unenthusiastic or he'll think you're notr interested. Best of luck xxxx;)
tell me WHO tomoz lol xxx
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reader, pebbam +, writes (1 October 2006):
Hello there,dont worry about all the sexual stuff, it will all come naturally and will be fine with the right guymake sure u are confident with him, make yourself known to him, if he doesnt know you exist yet then make sure you start talking to his friends or even walk past and say hi a few times! if you do know him, get to know him more, show yourself and dont pertend to be someone elseand dont change yourself, just be urself..if it doesnt work out there are plenty more boys in the world, and i promise you, there is someone out there for yougood luckxx
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reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):
 I would just stick to some playful flirting and getting his attention that way, as you've not had a relationship before you need to build up with a friendship first as you need to take things slowly.
Good luck :o)
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reader, fallenman  +, writes (30 September 2006):
 It all depends on what you are looking for out of your first relationship with a boy friend. If you are looking intially for is a bit of fun, company and going out then go and ask he.Remember he cannot read your mind and may have no idea you like him. I know that for a shy person going up to someone can be a terrifying experience, so before you walk over to him say to youself its OK if he says no but I will ask him anyway. While walking over to him remember smile no matter how you feel inside. If he is as interested as you are then the rest should be a bit easier. I am 51 so this next bit may be a bit out of touch, try not to use sexual acts to get / keep a boy friend, it usually end up with you feeling used and dirty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2006): I would say the best way to talk to this guy is to look every now and again and when he's alone go and see him with all confidence and learn things about him and you might be in with a chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2006): I would say the best way to talk to this guy is to look every now and again and when he's alone go and see him with all confidence and learn things about him and you might be in with a chance.
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