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writes:How do you stop a relationship being one way. My last relationship, I felt, was one way especially towards the end. Even if my next girlfriend is nice and friendly towards me, I'm worried that I'll have to keep in contact with with her by always arranging everything like when we should meet etc. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2006): Have you rejected your partners ideas before? I only say that because I felt that it was unfair on my male friend and I for him to always make the decisions, but the one time I suggested somewhere he didn't seem keen. In this case, my male friend likes the control I think and I am happy for him to have it, but I am shy and sensitive and it did take alot for me to suggest somewhere. I did take the rejection abit personally and have left him to make the decisions since then. I just wonder if this could be happening in your situation. I would encourage your partner to make suggestions in case she is shy & be open to those suggestions.
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reader, Ainley +, writes (28 May 2006):
 just go with the flow, most girls think that what you said would be cast as 'too keen' or 'bossy' so they tend to let the guy decide. just simply say what do you want to do tonight because im out of ideas? or just let them come to you, there really isnt much need to worry because that'll get you no where! just relax and they'll come to you.
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