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writes: I am going on a date tomorrow with a girl that i really like, and im quite sure she likes me too. It's not the first time ive gone to a movie with her. But I have never kissed a girl on the lips or anything before, or asked a girl out...to be steady. Tomorrow is time to do that. How can i do this to make it seem that i am ready for it, and that im clueless about this? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo i know why she can't neccessarily be faithful, she is just the type that likes to have fun, and well i do too. I am 2 grades above her...about to be a senior, yet the age difference is 10 months, yet she has more experience in dating than i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): Glad the date went alright :)
I'm not sure what to say about her not being able to faithfully keep a commitment though, it's not the kind of thing you want to hear after a first day. You take care ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help. The date went really well, i put my arm around her, and she held onto my hand. It was going just how I wanted it to go, and when i dropped her off, i asked her to go steady. She said "sure", but she says that to any question. I got home, and sitting in my email inbox was a lengthy email saying how she could not faithfully keep a commitment. I don't know how i should act around her now. I think it could work, just more time is needed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): So how did the date go? :)
On my first date I was so shy, we went to the movies and hardly said a word to each other, it was a bit of a diasater really.. :|
Movies are not a good place to take a date - you need to go somewhere that you can both talk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2006): ok......i was nervous the first time too......but after that.....i became soo outgoing! durring the movie.....either she will look at u or u will look at her.....and just turn your head and kiss....its really not that hard!! and there are very few things that can go wrong!!if u take ur time u should be fine!!! seriously!! dont stress that much over a first kiss.........u will no when the time is right....and just make the move!!(and dont wait for her to make a move.....cause someitmes girls just wont make a move.....they will just wait for the guys...)
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