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writes: ok im 22 years old and am casual friends with a guy--meaning we hang out when theres parties but not really anywhere else. basically long story short---we think alike. hes not into relationships and neither am i. i believe we're both afraid (he agreed) which is fine bc im young and just want to have fun. now the thing is, i figure since he wants me, and i want him, hooking up isnt a bad thing. what i want to know is, is this a bad idea? i dont really have doubts but i just want to hear opinions other than my friends (who, all say do as i want)im really not trusting of guys and DO NOT want anything serious and im almost positive that he's in the same boat (i mean, he's a guy) so i just wanted to have some feedback. thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2006): hi i wrote the question. thank you for replying, i just wanted to say i agree with the attachment thing--but if you want me to be honest, many people who know him think that he'd be the one to get attached not the other way around (i have my real heart to someone else that i cant have). i just want to have fun. i guess i realize the positives and negatives, so i'll see how things go . thank you though!
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reader, Ainley +, writes (28 May 2006):
 well all i can say is tears, tears, tears. but if your sure your okay with him just using you for sex and nothing else then be my guessed but i say one thing his respect for you will fade so will the conversations. ive been there and felt the same as you do so im telling you from experience it'll be great for the first say 6 months but then we start to get unconsiously attached and then BANG we either fall for them or find our self worth, and the fun is no more.
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