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writes: I fancy a guy who used to fancy me but who now has a girlfriend. He says he loves her but he still flirts with me. Do i have a chance with him and how can i find out how he feels about me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): I am in agony myself. This really cute very much my type one of a kind guy, flirts with me. He tells me he loves me when he is drunk and kisses me. Then he has a pregnant girlfriend whom he lives with and says he does not want to marry. Half the time he says he does not care about her, they argue alot. But then he continues to say that he wants to be with me and says he wants me to eventually be his girlfriend. I ask myself why is this guy torturing me and drawing me into his drama? I am a nice girl, I mind my own bussiness, I do not cause trouble. But he keeps laying it on me soo thick and then pulling it back. Am I his stomping board? He infers he will call, never does, etc. etc. We have done nothing but kiss. Am I doing something wrong? If he were single, he would be exactly my type of guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): He has a g/f and is flirting with you? Not saying much for him is it! If he is so loose with his girlfriends, I am suprised you want to be the next one that he can do this too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2006): Ainley is right on the mark. If he's flirting with you and he has a gf...does this not tell you an enormous amout of information about him? Dear, you need to detach yourself from this guy and be willing to give up your expectations about him. He is playing a 'cruel' game with your emotions. Detachment is crucial because it allows you to let go and move forward. Feelings change and he made his decision and chose her when both of you were available to him. When we like someone, it's hard to step back and think sensibly, without that surge of emotion. But you need to be "reality-based" here..leave him be, embrace the loss, learn from this and try hard to move on. I am sorry.
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reader, Ainley +, writes (28 May 2006):
 first thing HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND and the fact that he's flirting with you should say something about his character, how would you feel if your so called boyfriend was going off flirting with everyone especially someone he used to care for? i think you have your answer, sorry but i had to be honest. truth is guys flirt we all do but theres a line and i hope he knows it. i think you'll just have to wait and see let them be, if it's not ment to be then you can make your move, also think long and hard before you admit anything ( when he's single ) because it could just be the case of him not giving you the attention he used too, been there it can be very messy! respect the lady he's with because you'd want the same.
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