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writes:yey people got a huge problem my boyfriend keeps on talking to me about having kids and starting a family and settling down. and im really not ready for it all i mean im onli 16!!!!! and he's onli 15!!!!! i need to end it now befor it gets too far any advice on how to do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2006): Thank you so much for all your advice its very very usfull i hope he understands me. thnks again
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reader, Yos  +, writes (30 August 2006):
 When is he thinking this will happen? Is he saying that he wants to get married and have babies one day in the distant future? That's probably fine. But if he's saying he wants to do it soon, then he is way ahead of his time (and not in a good way). Ask him when he'd like to have kids and see what he says.
If you do choose to end it, the best way is to be honest. Don't say anything mean, but make sure he understands as best as possible why. It's the fairest way, even though it is painful at the time. And never say "it's not you, it's me". That's the dumping equivalent of "do you come here often?"
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reader, bonnismiles +, writes (30 August 2006):
 tell your boyfriend that you need to slow thingd down cause you are only young and you have your whole life ahead of you hen make him understand if he dont then you will have to end it iif you not happy doll take care xx
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reader, kellyO +, writes (30 August 2006):
 Hi there,
You could simply tell him the truth.That u think the relationship is moving way too fast for you and heading in the wrong turn up from how u wish it to go and would like to end things and focus on other key areas of your life.
Goodluck dear.
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