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writes:i think im in love withmy best boy mate, weare so close and talk on the phone nearly every night, i have no idea how he feels about me because theres no tale talesigns. He knows me inside out and i always tell him whats on my mind, but the one thing i cant tell him is that i love him more than a friend. He hasnt had a girlfriend in about a year so i know he would happily be with anyone really, but i want to be with him because he likes me, not because he hasnt had a girlfriend in a long while. i cant get him off my mind and everything reminds me of him. help :S Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): i know how u feel me duck, i used to date this girl, and then we split up and she went to uni like a million miles away from me. I have seen other girls sice her bt i keep going back to her, i wish i could tell her that i love her and that i have ALWAYS loved her and that i would do anything to be with her (including moving millions of miles away to be with her) but i jus can't seem to do it. She is my best friend and we have such a laugh together! Argh! i hate this i hate it all, why cant life go back to how it was before i started noticing girls and how damn nice they are and how damn nice there smell is and how deep blue her eyes are and how when she smiles it lights up the whole world! :(
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reader, bonym +, writes (29 August 2006):
 I think you should just tell him, why not say something along the lines of:
"Listen,I know the 2 of us are really close, we know each other inside out, and we are best mates, well how would you feel if I said that I liked you a bit more than a friend, well ok, a lot more than a friend?"
Obviously you would not say those exact words, but I think you need to tell him how you feel. Good luck and I hope it goes well. Take care babes. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2006): you need to tell him how you feel guys dont normally express there feeling because they dont want to look stupid.dont walk around wondering what if just do it before someone else sweaps him away and you get hurt.......plus the worst thing could happen is him saying no..........telllhimmmm good luck
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reader, shell26 +, writes (29 August 2006):
Tell him, tell him, tell him. You could miss out if you dont tell him now. Somebody else will come along. If you guys are that close you can tell him anything. He probably feels the same way
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reader, shell26 +, writes (29 August 2006):
Tell him, tell him, tell him. You could miss out if you dont tell him now. Somebody else will come along. If you guys are that close you can tell him anything. He probably feels the same way
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reader, camille +, writes (29 August 2006):
 I think you need to talk to him if you are absolutely sure of you're feelings. Go somewhere that's a neutral ground, somewhere quiet where you can talk that doesn't hold any previous memories for you. Start by telling him how much your friendship means and how happy you are to have him as a friend. Also tell him how great you think he is. Maybe if his reaction is showing any signs at all, you could pregress to telling him that lately you've been having feelings and you don't know what to do about them. Again, if he seems open to talking about it, you could tell him how you feel and IF he doesn't feel the same, tell him that's ok and then go away and think if you can cope being around him only as a friend. I hope you get the answer you want and if not, hope you can work through this. Personally I couldn't be friends with a man who I loved if he didn't feel the same way as it'd be torture. Luckily I haven't had that feeling since I was 17! Good luck!
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (29 August 2006):
 If you really feel this strongly about him, I think you should just tell him. He sounds like a really nice guy.
Maybe send him a text out of the blue, just saying, Ilove you. See how he reacts to that one.
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