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writes:Is it possible to love someone without realising? theres this lad i used to like but i dont anymore. but when he said he didnt want to speak to me anymore i cried. do i still love him without realising it? he was also my friend though before things got complicated. can anyone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, sugersweet02 +, writes (22 August 2006):
 i think you dont love him but hes always been your friend so you think you really love him but its a friendship love, i think love is between two people who dont share anything near friendship, i dont understand how u can love som1 without relising it you know it so no u dont good luck xox
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (22 August 2006):
 Maybe you dont love him, perhaps it is just because you have shared a past with him and were once friends that you feel like this. Nobody likes rejection, being told that someone doesnt want to speak to you hurts. I dont think you love him hunny, maybe you should take his advise though and not speak to him. It will be better for you in the long run. This guy obviously isnt worthy of your friendship, save it for someone else who is much more deserving. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): With camille I agree.
Sometimes you don't realise your real feelings for someone until "something" happens.
On the other hand, it may be that you feel rejected.
No one likes to be told that someone doesn't want to speak to them any more. That is not love, it is just a horrible feeling that comes from being rejected / felt unliked. If one of your friends said "I dont want to speak to you any more" you would probably cry; it doesn't mean you necessarily love her though.
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reader, camille +, writes (22 August 2006):
 I guess you can love someone without realising how much or why, what etc....but you may just care for him, or miss him or maybe it's his rejection of you that's distressing.
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