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writes:He says he doesnt want to speak to me. but i dont understand why.i asked him on msn and he said cz, i drew ... and he wrote f*** ya and went offline. shud i ask him agen? or leave him to it and see what he does? its really confusing me.
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (23 August 2006):
 I would leave it. This person obviously has no respect for you. If he had a problem with you he should of sat you down and spoke to you about it, not say that. He is rude. To be honest he probably wants you to chase him and he is getting a lot of enjoyment out of it. My advise to you is leave it, when he sees that you are not bothered he will probably come crawling with his tail between his legs. If not don't worry, he doesn't seem worth it to me hunny. Find some one special who will treat you with respect. Good luck
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reader, Turgo +, writes (23 August 2006):
Well im not sure what is going one for him not to want to talk to you. I would leave him alone. If he wants to tell you. He will tell you. But If hes not telling, I would say dont bother with him. Hes..... either having problems currently, or just an ass and not worth your time.
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reader, bonym +, writes (22 August 2006):
 Sweetie, just give him a bit of space for now, what he wrote on the MSN messenger was very uncalled for and not very nice, he owes you an apology. Perhaps he is going through a bad patch and he just needs some space. Let us know how it goes. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): This boy is not worth three seconds of your time and energy! Rude, immature, uncivilized, thoughtless - doesn't even begin to describe him.
Don't ask him again! Wash your hands, so to speak of him, and forget him. One person who wrote here said maybe he will realize how special you are and perhaps contact you.
Well, guess what? you ARE special, but even if he DID contact you - and it sounds very unlikely that he will - just tell him you're not interested. I could say tell him to get lost, but don't recommend you stooping to his level!
Plenty of better men out there! Good luck!
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reader, sugersweet02 +, writes (22 August 2006):
 leave it and dont be the first person to talk on email or in public let him aproch you and maybe it ant you he proboly has alot of things on his mind and always give him the oppertunity to confide in you and make it clear to him your always there but not to reliable. good luck xox
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reader, Nish +, writes (22 August 2006):
Girl, leave him alone! If he wants you, he'll reply in due time. Just let him be and see what happens. And don't stress about it neither. If he never writes back, then move on with your life. If you pulled him then you can pull another one and another one and another. As a matter of fact, get online and start talking to different men. See what happens!
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reader, Nay920 +, writes (22 August 2006):
Dont write him back just leave him alone he is going to want you back until he realized what he had is gone. Try to make him jealous by seeing you having a great time with another guy than hes going to be all over you again guys are selfish like that when you do that make sure he sees you having fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): I think if he can be verbally abusive and vulgar about it...don't waste your time Sweetie.
He could have articulated himself in a more polite manner while getting his point across.
It is apparent he is upset about something but even then; he could be bi-polar. *shrugs*
To be honest, there isn't much to go on.
Just let it be and if he wants to apologize and talk to you; it will be up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): listen its happened to me before and im telling you something you should remember you shouldnt waste time on people like him there is more people in the world to know and become friends with. just put it this way hes not worth it if he dont want to talk to you hes the one ehos missing out.
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reader, layla +, writes (22 August 2006):
 well he does not want to talk to you let him think and realise how special you are then hopefully will get in contact with you if he doesnt then get over him. Dont contact him because he will think that you cant get no one but him and think that what he did was good. xx good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): what a imature little boy! He obviously doesnt understand how much you like him otherwise he would have more respect for your feelings! Dear me! My advuce honey is to F**k him! move on! you will find some one who deserves you. Never be a doormat. You are a human being and deserve respect xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): If a person chooses to not talk to you, then that's their right. However, 'how' they choose to tell you that, says a lot about him. Any guy who can easily say, text, or type "F**k ya" to a female in response to a simple question, is not worth your time and energies, hun. His actions are plainly telling you he's immature and he's not a worthy person in your life. So why worry and get confused over a guy like this. So no, do not ask him again and really look at what type of person he is. Leave him alone and get over your feelings or need to be deperately attached to this cad. Find someone who treats you with respect, dear and in the future, never allow anyone to tear you down like this, again.
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