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writes:Me and this guy always flirt around. We have never kissed but we have gotten close. He has a baby's momma that hates me though. She is saying she is going to beat me up and I don't want to get beat up but I really like this guy. We get along fantastically. Should I go in for the kill and keep him close or should I let him go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): Have you discussed this with the man you like and asked him how you can both work this out so that you can date and that the Ex doesn't make true her words and assult you.
Does she have a prior police record and have you talked to the police about this as she is verbally threatening to harm you and this may be brought up with them. So at least it is documented.
I think your guy needs to sort things out with the Ex and make it clear of his intentions with you and that he won't tolerate her threatening you.
She should smarten up as if the police do get involved so will child welfare and that isn't good.
Talk to the guy you like and talk to the local auhthorities.
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reader, camille  +, writes (22 August 2006):
 I take it he's not with his baby's mum anymore? You shouldn't feel bullied or threatened in life so you must not give in to that. You should however talk this through with him and make sure you are safe. There needs to be some communication here because if she still cares about him and is angry and jealous, she may act irrationally and you must not be put at any risk. If it's at all possible, you should try to talk to her calmly about her threats and confide in people. Maybe ask the advice of the police, though they will not do anything unless she does. I feel for you as this can't be an easy decsion. If you feel so strongly about him and feel it's worth the effort, go for it but please be careful. Hopefully he will be man enough to stand up to her for you too..............
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