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writes: dear cupid. I'm in desperate need of guidance. Since having unprotected sex with my cousin I'm worried I might be pregnant. He has a wife and four children that he lives with and another child that he has refused to see for 14 years. What do i do???
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reader, bonym  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 Thank goodness for that!!!! Sweetie, dont let it happen again, because he is married with his own family and despite how you feel, you cant be together. Take care xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontypo! thankfully not!!!!!!
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reader, bonym +, writes (28 August 2006):
Wait, are you pregnant? Is that a typo, should it say thankfully I'm NOT pregnant or that you are? Please tell us, thanks. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI got a pregnancy test and thankfully im pregnant. Ive seen my cousin lately and he keeps hinting at what we did. But I cant stop thinkin of it! its almost like I want it to happen again but I no that its wrong.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (27 August 2006):
 I'm very sorry dear... I suppose your're young or that you just let yourself go in the wrong direction, where you drunk? TRY NOT TO DO IT AGAIN OK? Please have a pregnancy test, if you had sex with him in the last 72 hours you can still have the contraceptive pill in a birth control center in your area, please try to keep quiet as far as u can, if you're very young and pregnant you should talk with your family and the man for help, you can keep the baby with your family's help in case you want, other options are adoption as many couples would be willing to take care of your baby, abortion is an option but personally I don't think is good unless sexual abuse is involved, if your're adult maybe you can be a single mum, there are many dear do not worry a baby is a wonderful thing. love
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): ya, what tha hell where u thinking, hey u might giving me ur adress to send the guys in white... dude think about it thats just as morally wrong as having sex with ur brother(if u have one that is) u should be ashamed if u arnt, and if u r pregneant, geez if i were u i would hope i wasnt...
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reader, bonym +, writes (26 August 2006):
My dear what the hell were you thinking? He is your cousin, he is married, has 5 children and yet he still slept with you. Ask yourself what sort of man is he to do something like this. There are 2 things you need to do, first get a pregnancy test and you best pray to the Almighty God that you are not pregnant, and then after that, stay well away from your cousin, he sounds like a pervert. I do wish you all the best and remember,I am not judging you but please think next time before you have sex, think about who its with and if you dont want to be a mum, you know what you need todo to possible prevent that. Take care. xXx
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (22 August 2006):
 I think that you should get yourself testedand if you are pregnant its ashame to say and I personally don't usually agree with it but you should abort it. What were you thinking? Not only is he married with children but he is your cousin aswell. To make matters worse you didn't even use protection. I am not going to judge you hunny as I dont know what situation you were in but honestly stay away from your cousin. good luck
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reader, camille +, writes (22 August 2006):
 What do you do? Get tested and stay the hell away from your cousin who's married. There's a world of men, yet you pick a relation who's married with five children, one he refuses to see... wouldn't be another cousin's baby would it? Sorry but good grief, I don't know how old you are, or who started it, but what totally irresponsible behavour by you both. To add...... is he a blood related cousin? Do you know there are risks of having a baby with severe abnormalities if with family members? I am second guessing that you are very young and have been taken advantage of, if so, stay away from this man and seek professional help. Never mind pregnancy, you need protecting from a hell of a lot more with this sleazeball.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): I agree with the other responder, but I would also add that some consideration should be given to birth control. Perhaps it is judgmental on my part, but I'm often amazed by the number of women who do not protect themselves from pregnancy either by birth control or simple abstinence. So much pain and heartache as well as worry could be eliminated.***
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): Well first of all, get yourself a pregnancy test to determine whether or not you're pregnant. If you aren't pregnant, consider yourself lucky, but if you are, get yourself to a doctor right away. Next, consider getting yourself some counseling to deal with your issues. Obviously this isn't something that most people deal with on a regular basis, so I think counseling would help you assess the situation. I also think you should not maintain any kind of contact with your cousin. You don't want to worsen things, so for your sake, his sake, his wife's sake, and his children's sake, stay away from this weirdo. Good luck to you.
~RJGirl
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